See myself through others' eyes

I wonder sometimes how others really see me. Wouldn’t it be nice sometimes to just stop everything and like a tv show see yourself through their eyes. What do they really see?

Camera ONE: (left eye) what is on her teeth? Is she still talking? What’s up with that hair?

Camera TWO: (right eye) she’s kinda nice. I like this person. Nice smile.

Both Camera’s: She’s kinda nice but what is that on her teeth. I like her but I can’t stand the hair., she really needs to get to the salon.

I asked my sister to truthfully tell me what she saw in me. And she did. It was kinda harsh, but also extremly sweet.

I have spent lots of time trying to define myself through my eyes, I would like to be able to see someone’s TRUE definition of me through their own eyes…that would take blatent hard-core honesty.

Confusing goal…truth be told…don’t know if I’ll reach it. HMMMM