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How to lose my virginity to someone worth losing it to by alfokris

"it actually kind of sucked at first, but i'm glad of who i did it with."

How I did it: i actually had sex with my roommate.  we had started dating a few weeks before, and we had been living together for 7 months.  we both knew it was right, but it wasn't the greatest experience ever.  sex sucks at first, and you can't expect too much from the first time, especially if you are particularly tight in that area and rip, it hurts a bit.  for a lot of people, it takes awhile to find positions where both of you will orgasm.  be patient, do it with the right person, and don't fantasize too much about the glamour.  you'll only be disappointed, when it can be a beautiful experience nonetheless.

Lessons & tips: use lots of lube the first time, and don't be afraid to say what you're feeling.  never pretend like you're enjoying something because you think you should be!  this act is for both of you to do together, and for both of you to enjoy!  make sure you are not pressured into it, and always be safe!

Resources: we use Trojan condoms.  www.cosmopolitan.com has some sex positions if you're feeling uncreative.


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    I feel like an alien. 4 weeks ago

    At 25, something isn’t clicking. I nearly had a ‘friends with benefits’ with my roommate but no, I quickly got out of the situation when I realized I wanted more from him than he was willing to give (and besides, he wanted to go back to his ex).

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    Only once 12 months ago

    unfortunately this is one you can only do once.

    Jul 16, 2008, 02:20AM PDT | 0 comments


    randyteen

    please help 14 months ago

    i’m 18 and all my freinds have dunnit. but i’m the only one that hasn’t

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    alfokris needs to go to bed.

    Untitled 14 months ago

    i’m not sure if that will be marriage or before, but i know i want it to be special, and not something i will look back on and regret.

    Apr 21, 2008, 12:53AM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


    quitejaded feels useless and a failure

    Hm-hm 18 months ago

    Well, I feel like I shall never fall in love. And I met someone who pleases me sexually enough that I would lose it to him if I had to and I found someone who loves me enough that if I had to, I’d lose it to him, but I am not ready. I want someone more.

    Jan 01, 2008, 01:10AM PST | 0 comments


    looserxlove

    Untitled 18 months ago

    can u lose ur virginity to a dildo a.k.a. a fake dick??

    Dec 25, 2007, 08:27PM PST | 1 comment


    huntermardimorgan is maybe getting on top of things

    too late 20 months ago

    I lost it to a stoner one night bonging on.
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    maddywoo

    Yep a few weeks ago 20 months ago

    He’s my boyfriend but he’s my best friend as well. This is someone whose so gaga for me and I know as well as everyone else knows he would never hurt me. Literally, he is the sweetest thing to walk this earth. I personally believe you shouldn’t have sex with a person until you feel you’re in love with them. Cause the best sex is the Im in love with you sex to me.

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    michelleturner3

    The deed was done 2 years ago

    A few months ago I lost it. It was to my b/f and I am happy I waited for some I loved and glad I could wait. I am 20 and happy to say I waited till recently to lose my virginity.

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    Livann

    Untitled 2 years ago

    I will admit I did lose my virginity to my husband. But, long before were even seriously dating. He was so gentle and caring. He didn’t want to hurt me. We have a lot in common and instantly felt a connection when we first met.
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