lose my virginity to someone worth losing it to

I dont really understand whats going on with my life. I cant seem to get a boyfriend or someone I would like to date. Im 23 years old and have never had sex yet. I guess I’m too picky when it comes to guys. The guy that I like a lot has kids and is only looking for friends with benefits. I wish we could have a relationship but that wont happen. He doesn’t want to do anything with me because he doesn’t want to take my virginity and not want anything more and doesn’t want me to get too attached. I like him a lot and I’m ready to lose my virginity but at the same time I want a relationship.

I dunno what’s in the water, but it seems like every time I turn around, sex slaps me in the face (I can blame the media for that!). There was a period of time where I felt like I was missing out, but with my roommate’s recent health scare (he’s fine), I’m feeling soooooo glad that I haven’t put out, cos I wouldn’t want to freak out over what was just some weird health junk and think it was serious health junk.

I still feel like that at this age, I’m an oddity. I can’t stand that the people I hang with have all done it, even the youngest in our crew (18) and I’m like, my gawd, am I defective or something?! But I’ll have something that they don’t—paitence. But then again, I hang out with dudes and they pretty much think with their penises, so that’s that.

It’s a scary thought that I’m the only girl in the group. But the guys all treat me fairly, but I think I need to kill some of the gear I wear—sometimes I don’t notice that it’s a little too sexy until my roommate points it out. For once, I should pay attention to why the guys get all flustered and stutter when I’m just rattling on about some story—apparently they can’t concentrate when they see my legs or a hint of boob or I have broke out the 3 inch heels. I’m usually covered up and wear sensible shoes, so if I do break out the shorts, which is rare cos I’m always in long skirts/dresses that go past the knee, they’re having fits. I guess I’m that typical anime character who doesn’t realizes she’s just so darn sexy! (grin)

At 25, something isn’t clicking. I nearly had a ‘friends with benefits’ with my roommate but no, I quickly got out of the situation when I realized I wanted more from him than he was willing to give (and besides, he wanted to go back to his ex).

I can’t seem to get a date to save my life, and the few dates I’ve been on have been unsuccessful. I’m going to be 30 before I know it and still haven’t had sex. Ugh…

I wanted romance and all, but now I just want to DO IT. Maybe it’s my hormones or something…

unfortunately this is one you can only do once.

i’m 18 and all my freinds have dunnit. but i’m the only one that hasn’t

i’m not sure if that will be marriage or before, but i know i want it to be special, and not something i will look back on and regret.

Well, I feel like I shall never fall in love. And I met someone who pleases me sexually enough that I would lose it to him if I had to and I found someone who loves me enough that if I had to, I’d lose it to him, but I am not ready. I want someone more.

can u lose ur virginity to a dildo a.k.a. a fake dick??

I lost it to a stoner one night bonging on.
Needless to say it wasnt the most passionate experience, but oh well. i have no regrets, he was a nice guy and at least i wasnt nervous.

He’s my boyfriend but he’s my best friend as well. This is someone whose so gaga for me and I know as well as everyone else knows he would never hurt me. Literally, he is the sweetest thing to walk this earth. I personally believe you shouldn’t have sex with a person until you feel you’re in love with them. Cause the best sex is the Im in love with you sex to me.