Be a self-made woman

I met someone new last night who told me that I have a very strong sense of being self made about me.

Perhaps I should think deeper into the meanings of this goal.

I hadn’t even thought about it the way she meant it.

she was lovely…....

this is my ultimate goal in life,this might just be my life’s purpose,
but where do i start?its highly scary out there but i know i have to make it on my own,i will be very unhappy with my life otherwise.
but
how do i become self made?by not taking help from my parents?by being emotionally strong and independent? and doing everything on my own?by finding my self worth?by being financially independent?by facing my demons alone?is it a mix of everything?
who defines what self made means? does it only mean being successful in life.
hmmm
i guess i will figure it out.
sometime soon hopefullly.