Caring experienced psychologist
Heal negative beliefs and trauma
janisrosenberg.com
The Second City Training Center-LA
Now enrolling!
www.SecondCity.com
Get helpful information and advice
on raising your teen. Learn more.
www.MVParents.com
Be Aware. Develop. Fulfill Yourself
The Path Starts w/ You. Learn More
www.eolife.org/Self
56 out of 56 people (100%) think this is worth doing.
(What is RSS?)
How I did it: I was always a slave to the delusional romances I experienced that lived ONLY in my fantasies. I kept seeking and throwing myself at men that clearly didn't want me. I gave them up. Stopped grovelling for crumbs from their table and went out and opened myself up to many that had always been their giving me the attention I craved ( I had never given them the time of day!). In the past I focused on those that had NOTHING for me. Now I ONLY give those time that are healthy, loving and receptive. OPEN UP, LOOK AROUND, THEY ARE ALL AROUND YOU! Let them love you!
Lessons & tips: Be Open. Never mind the closed doors, Walk through the open ones
A fish with many fins is going to find herself again
I went home after 2 beers, some hi’s and hellos. I know happiness is what you make out of a situation. But I felt alienated. They all have their own groups and there was only 1 person who talked to me.
My friends… I wondered… aren’t really my friends at all. I don’t know.
maggie2310 washed that man right out of her hair
Some background… exfiance spent from May 2008 – August 2008 cheating on me like a crazy man. He said the first girl was lust then he hated himself and it spiralled out of control. Of course my self esteem was shot to heck. :(
Why do I now feel so beautiful and happy !?
I know quite a lot about three of the women that I have evidence he cheated with. There may be others but I’ll never know. They are not good people. They all knew about me and still agressively threw themselves at him. One of them was writing to him with detailed plans about how they should sleep together, how I will never know, what contraception they will use… etc. Then I got to thinking… I possess a beauty and sense of self that these women will never have. Now, I feel sorry for them.
I am beautiful from the inside out. I look in the mirror and I like me. I am very proud of myself for my accomplishements and efforts to always be good to others. :)
I am reallllly shy, I have no confidence and my self-esteem is like not existent. I wish that I wasnt so shy but I just can’t help it. I sit in a all the way in the back in class so no one would notice me. I hardly talk to anyone in school. I feel like there is always someone judging me. I really want to improve my self-esteem but I really don’t know how to. Um, help!!
I’m tired of hating myself. Enough of being my own worst critic times a million. Even if I am fat, ugly, stupid, awkward, uncoordinated, lazy, messy, etc., I have to accept it. I’m stuck being me no matter what.
Kelly wants to go to the US to pursue her dream of being an actress
I think I’ve had a low self-esteem starting from high school, maybe before that. It’s really easy to have people tell you off and feel feel crap about it.
However, it’s so important to stand up for yourself and morals and values.
I hereforth vow to improve my self-esteem, and let no person, man or woman tell me that or make me feel less than what I am.
This is for me and my future kids. So that i can be a better person and improve the way I think and feel.
charlotte1984 thinks cooking with cider is the way forwards : )
this creeps up on me when I least expect it.
Started off today so well – feeling all cute in my new dress for work…
Then someone makes a comment that wasn’t even about me or in anyway related to me and I’m right back down again just like that.
I don’t know what it is really – I think I’m a good person – I just now have this voice in my head saying I’m not fun enough, I’m too boring, I don’t dress well enough, I’m too big.
I hate how I convince myself that noone likes me, that I’m too annoying. It stops me from making new friendships and improving the ones I have. Cos I just don’t feel like anyone would wana be friends with me or spend time with me.
Damn my silly head and issues!
charlotte1984 thinks cooking with cider is the way forwards : )
bad again today :(
InTheForest is trying to reach my goals!
I never realized until recently how much I hate myself. It runs so deep I never even realized it. I once had a friend tell me a few years ago I have low self-esteem. I told her she was completely wrong. I think I’m a great person, really cool and pretty OK with how I look! Ha Ha! I didn’t realize how much I was fooling myself. It all runs so much deeper! All those things are on the surface.
petitmacaron still has a cough T_T
OK, I have two books that I’m going to use every day from today onwards -
365 steps to confidence – David Lawrence Preston
Feel the fear and do it anyway – Susan Jeffers
Anyone else used either of these…?
Hugh McD Playing my guitar =]
Thats a tough one…
Most people turn to their physical problems…
Saying
“oooh, I eat wayyy too much”
or
“why im I ugly?”
Too many people think negative…
Go out! Meet with friends! Have fun!
Friends will support you…
We think so little of ourselfs and over exagerate on the bad things…
Friends help you realise your really a great person…
So like I said…
Leave your computer…
Pick up your phone…
Ring your best friends and go…
-jimjimjoe
