just didnt work out. ended up living with the guy and the girl..turned me into a jealous freak. me and dude ended up just us together. and then had a terrible relationship that lasted years. 20 months ago
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Maybe in the future, just maybe, I ‘d like to try it out. To see my boundaries. To question society. 2 years ago
Poly is a challenge, you need to make sure you have the right people and the right terms and the right boundaries with total honesty, it is not for the faint of heart but in the right situation can make life wonderful. 2 years ago
How I did it: I decided to get involved with the local poly community. It helped a whole lot. You can read articles online about open relationships until your eyes bleed but it was helpful to see other people's dynamics in person. I started dating 2 couples that caught my attention, very casual dates like dinner and board game night. I learned to recognize that putting any intense expectations or instant seriousness about relationships isn't the way to go. Read how I did it… 2 years ago
I began looking for a relationship outside of my marriage at my husband’s suggestion.
Long story short- after two years of deep, meaningful relationships that ended because others wanted me and me alone, my husband began cheating on me.
This was a deeply layered, highly emotionally volatile situation.
It ended in me being choked and beaten up, moving into a women’s shelter with my daughter and (so far) nine months of seemingly endless divorce proceedings.
My advice- do it while you’re young- before you have children. experience what love is before you have committed yourself wholly to someone else.
It can be liberating and fulfilling knowing more than one person on sucj an intimate level. I feel like I’m all screwed upside inside now, unfortunately. 2 years ago