dump someone

how picky i am.

So me and my b/f now have known each other for like 2 years.. and we just started dating 2months agoo.. and he is in hawaii for college and im in pa. Before he left i started to lose my feelings for him and started liking somebody else.. and now i really do wanna break up w/ him even thou there really isnt somebody else.. if u wrote down everything u want in a guy on paper he would be it.. but i just dont want him he is soo annoying.. so how do i break this off?? any advicee?? ♥ alyssa…

i thought i really liked him n he keeps saying he loves me n stuff but i dont think he right for me

he keeps trying to get me back n he wants to talk but i dont want to hurt either of us again…ugh this sux

It was probably the best decision i’ve ever made.
granted, he “was in love with someone else” and he lived 40 minutes away so that made it a little bit easier.
he didn’t understand me at all, and thought i was too serious. we had nothing in common and we never talked very much. i was just wasting my time. looking back i didn’t like him at all.

plus it opened my life to better possibilities. :)

This Guy is head over heels for me, and i mildly dislike him. I dont know what i thought i saw in him. Today when i was about to split up with him he told me he wanted to spend his life with me, and hed die if i left him, Help!!

I may be in the middle of the longest break up in history. I have a handsome wonderful bf in every aspect but one…he does out clubbing with the guys once or twice a week, every single week. While many may think this is ok, this is not ok with me, and I want to meet a different guy who is not such a party guy.

I have tried many times to dump him, but he begs, cries, etc for us to get back together, and since I love him, I feel bad and take him back. I love him, but he is the wrong guy for me…how do I make the break up stick?

I can agree that dumping someone isn’t necessarily fun, but it actually does make me happy. Think of it as breaking off something that isn’t benefitting my life. After getting away from the initial breakup conversation which can be awkward and there is crying or weirdness or just unpleasantness… it’s so freeing.

be the bad guy. I can’t stand hurting people. But sometimes you have to do it.

done and gone

It can be worth doing, and sometimes it’s not.