holly_3Don't know that it's necessarily "positive"....
but I do know that it wasn’t my fault. It still makes me sad sometimes but I’ve accepted that there must have been a reason. 11 months ago
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casmartin
It made me
strong and ready. 
How I did it: First of all, I gave myself time to grieve after the miscarriage. I also gave myself permission to do whatever I needed to do to get through the initial shock and pain. I cried a lot, I got angry, I ate a lot of cookies, I stayed up all night thinking about things and journaling, I stayed in my pajamas, etc. I allowed myself to feel every emotion that came to me and tried very hard not to shame or guilt myself for anything.
As time passed, I started to really consider the possibility that I am supposed to be doing something else with my life right now or I would still be pregnant. I logged onto this 43things.com account that I had created a couple months before getting pregnant (but didn't do much with) and started to really think about how I want to live my life and what I want to do with my time here.
Now, I am setting goals and actually completing them. This site is helping me to dream again and allowing me to have opportunities to not only reflect on my life but also to move myself into action. I am feeling a liveliness beginning to stream through me that I haven't felt for awhile. I am excited about the possibilities but I also know I have so much to enjoy right here in the present moment. That is how I turned my miscarriage into something positive. :)
ladynicholeEilian
I lost my first child on Oct. 4, 2007 at 11w5d. We named our child Eilian. It is a Welsh unisex name that means—“a moment in time.”
I know my little one is playing among the stars. I miss “him” (I always thought I was carrying a boy) so very much.
I was due April 26th, 2008.
I found a website (www.silentgrief.com) that has wonderful message boards for those who have lost a child. . .miscarriage/stillbirth/or even a young child or teen.
There are also boards for those who are TTC after loss, pregnant after loss, and Moms after loss.
I want to help others who have or are going through this. 4 years ago
