holly_3Don't know that it's necessarily "positive"....
but I do know that it wasn’t my fault. It still makes me sad sometimes but I’ve accepted that there must have been a reason. 11 months ago
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but I do know that it wasn’t my fault. It still makes me sad sometimes but I’ve accepted that there must have been a reason. 11 months ago
How I did it: First of all, I gave myself time to grieve after the miscarriage. I also gave myself permission to do whatever I needed to do to get through the initial shock and pain. I cried a lot, I got angry, I ate a lot of cookies, I stayed up all night thinking about things and journaling, I stayed in my pajamas, etc. I allowed myself to feel every emotion that came to me and tried very hard not to shame or guilt myself for anything.
I lost my first child on Oct. 4, 2007 at 11w5d. We named our child Eilian. It is a Welsh unisex name that means—“a moment in time.”
I know my little one is playing among the stars. I miss “him” (I always thought I was carrying a boy) so very much.
I was due April 26th, 2008.
I found a website (www.silentgrief.com) that has wonderful message boards for those who have lost a child. . .miscarriage/stillbirth/or even a young child or teen.
There are also boards for those who are TTC after loss, pregnant after loss, and Moms after loss.
I want to help others who have or are going through this. 4 years ago