turn this miscarriage to something positive

I am just getting over my miscarriage. Not in the emotional way but physical. I want to get better (healthier, stronger) so that we can try again in 3 months. Here’s to a stronger, better, healthier, smarter me! For my future baby :)

I lost my first child on Oct. 4, 2007 at 11w5d. We named our child Eilian. It is a Welsh unisex name that means—“a moment in time.”

I know my little one is playing among the stars. I miss “him” (I always thought I was carrying a boy) so very much.

I was due April 26th, 2008.

I found a website (www.silentgrief.com) that has wonderful message boards for those who have lost a child. . .miscarriage/stillbirth/or even a young child or teen.

There are also boards for those who are TTC after loss, pregnant after loss, and Moms after loss.

I want to help others who have or are going through this.

it was very hard. you just have to keep in mind that things happen for a reason. there couldve been terrible health issues with your baby, the baby may not have survived… just keep optimistic about it. when its time, you will conceive again. stay hopeful.

pregnancy: unplanned & quite a shock, but we started looking forward to a baby. then a missed miscarriage.

2 unexpected events in 2 months were quite a ride