Acco3 is feeling blue due to rainny season.
You’re not the one to make all bad things happened!
How I did it: It took me a long time to realize that everyone does stupid stuff through the growing process and growing up. The trick is to learn from your mistakes and work everyday to become a better person than you were the day before. At some point you have to imagine a clean slate and visualize the person you want to be, this site is a great place to start becoming the person you long to be:o) Read how I did it…
sweet vv is ready to change her world
How I did it: I took too seriously something someone said to me and that made me feel incredibly guilty and i just couldn't find ways to forgive myself. I got into depression and anxiety crisis and it took me more than one year to overcome all that. After all this time i could see everything clearly and i found out that there was nothing to feel guilty about. I'm only human, i've made mistakes, everybody does, we just gotta learn the lessons and move o… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I made a lot of mistakes and did some bad things that I never told people, I always thought about them and couldnt get them out of my head like I was going a bit insane, I just realised that this happened and whats done is done theres nothing I can change but what I do in the present, so for now on I will make no mistakes and do not wrong only follow my heart and hopefully I feel stronger and happy as each day goes by and get to the end o… Read how I did it…
weallareone is in challenging times! but confident she'll meet the challenge!
How I did it: I grew, I had realisations, I saw things objectively with a little time and space. I focused on what was working, rather than what was missing and what was wrong.I loved myself a lot more :-)I looked into the mirror every night and into my own eyes and told myself "I Love You" Read how I did it…
FreeVulnerability is contemplating. and buying some time
How I did it: I talked to the people who I knew could help me forgive myself for things I've done. I asked them to forgive me and they did. No questions asked. So I could therefore forgive myself. Case closed Read how I did it…
Acco3 is feeling blue due to rainny season.
You’re not the one to make all bad things happened!
After years of being ashamed of my mistakes and those I’ve let in to hurt me,I have to realize that it’s not my fault. I have to understand that I’m better than any bad perception or behavior that any one has put me through. I have to start learning that I matter,tha I am wonderful,that I’m going to be an even greater person in the future,that I will and am going to prosper and not be afraid of myself and this world.I am going and willing to love myself unconditionally with Gods help and guidance.I see,and feel him in and around me. I am going to be the best and am going to finally bury the hachett and start loving myself and forgiving myself for past wounds. I’m a good person,who doesn’t and will not go bad.
Acco3 is feeling blue due to rainny season.
I realize that I can( should?) enjoy my life by myself. I don’t need to concern what the other people think too much. I have to find out what I like. It’s a start ahead.
MonologueTheatre : loves her Ry. <3
I have made some huge, (in my eyes), mistakes with what was said and done to people whom I care about. I have talked and wrote to a few of those people … coming clean about things. I was forgiven, however, we don’t speak anymore. I still carry on with my life knowing that. But some days are harder than others … when I just think of all the good times we’ve shared and everything. And there are a few more people who I would like to come clean with.
I would love to let them know, so it doesn’t seem like a secret to me. That I’m keeping it all bottled up inside without having people know.
Hopefully when all this is said and done I can work hard on forgiving myself for my actions and move on. I might need professional help or something. But it’d be worth it, right?
“I forgive everything,
everyone,
every experience,
every memory of the past or present
that needs forgiveness.
I forgive positively everyone.
I also forgive myself of past mistakes.
Realizing this, I abide in peace.”
I did something stupid last night. I drank an entire bottle of wine. which caused me to piss the bed and feel like a total idiot this AM.
I did this after letting things get to me. Things that normal people have no problems with. I beat myself up daily for past mistakes. I know it irrational and I know i need to change but it is not easy.
Today I need to forgive myself for just yesterday – the other stuff will come in time. Just one step at a time.
tdhilltx21 is getting it going!!!
What do I want to forgive myself for doing and what will be the outcome of forgiving myself?
I think I have accomplished this. I haven’t felt that deep regret sneaking up on me lately, and I make a conscious effort daily to act in a way that is true to myself. I am not going to remove it from my goals for a little while longer just to be sure that the guilt doesn’t return, because I realize that this is not the kind of goal that you just wake up one day and say, “I forgive myself!”. It seems that it is more of a process. Something gradual. It seems it is something that you realize is missing more than something gained, like when that heaviness has lifted from your heart.
GaiaMaria is counting her blessings - and there are plenty!
because I’ve really come so so far…I’ve worked hard all the way through my treatment, finished treatment in the first group and I am now joining the next group to do the final work to make sure my ED and depression will become a definite thing of the past. I feel better than I’ve ever felt before, I’m allowing myself to be me with all that it entails, I’m taking chances I never thought I’d find the courage to take and I’m finally following my dreams wholeheartedly and not letting other people’s opinions sway me in what I believe to be true!
Life is good and so am I.
:)
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Montrose
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killinspiders asks,
“Where do I even start? How do I know when I've done it?”
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