Stop complaining about little things

i’m not sure that i really complained about too much today..unless you count me relaying the story about the rude women in the post office..but that wasn’t really complaining..just ranting :)

today was pretty good..guess i didn’t have much time to complain.

each day i’m going to try and catch at least one thing that i complained about..and then later before I go to bed I’m going to write about how i can change this thing or how i can accept it.

i find myself complaining and complaining..some things i can change..some things i cannot..the things that i can change..well then i should change them and stop complaining and the things i can’t change..i need to accept it gracefully and realize that there are far worse things in the world. i also find myself complaining about the same things over and over again..like my annoyances with my sister…yes she is a rude and selfish person..but is me complaining going to change that? NO. my boyfriend noted how much i complain about it..and he’s right..its just pointless.

so..today..i remember complaining about my sister and how her alarm wakes me up and that she never hears it and lets it go on for hours..literally..it will be right next to her head and she doesn’t hear it. so..i can fix it in one way…to stop sleeping down in our basement..even if i do love falling asleep to the tv…i can sleep in my bed..afterall thats what it is for..so i can change the fact that i won’t have to be in the same room as her..as far as getting annoyed and complaining about her alarm..its not really my problem..so long as it doesn’t wake me up.

i seriously need to stop this..it’s so bad.
I feel like such a negative nancy.
I think half of the problem is that I don’t think before I speak so complaints just easily come out.

my boyfriend recently noted that i complain alot lately. i don’t know what sparked this complaining streak..but he’s right. how annoying i am! any suggestions?

i’d write up all this later