improve my sex life

i have been with my boyfriend just over a year and a half and at first sex was great and all thru my pregnancy but since we got our own place we dont seem to have it much anymore, i dont understand why whenever i do want to have ex i have to ask for it most of the time he comes up with some excuse. but we dont talk about it or anything. to me it just seems he finds me unattractive and doesnt want to have sex with me or that he is getting it from some wheree but he assures me that he wouldnt leave me or go with anyone else but i fine it hard to believe as he has himself signed up to dating websites and if i find out about them he very quickly deneighs it. but i have seen him on then myself i just dont know what to do i want to have a good sex life and feel like he wants me to.

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we are getting married but ever since we got together we havent had sex, he wont even talk about it. I dont know what to do anymore, please help.

I have totally succeeded at this.

I highly recommend the book “She Comes First”

....it doesn’t hurt that my wife is coming into her prime either.

Life is good.

Hmn. Well…it may not sound very ‘romantic’, but we’ve been together for over 8 yrs…and every now then things get a little routine to say the least. A fun thing we’re doing at the mo is writing a load of weird and wonderful sexual things on bits of paper and putting them in a hat….every Thursday night we both draw one out and spend the weekend trying it out! (‘Have sex outdoors’ was last weekends – thank the lord the weather was good!)

Going back to basics is a good one…spending more time kissing, once in a long term reltionship, that’s often one thing that goes out of the window….after 30 mins of kissing, you’ve forgotten how amazing it feels and that ususally kick starts somethin’!

We’re trying for a baby so that’s definately helping, though god knows how long that novelty will last…;)

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and although we do still have regular sex it has become a little bit routine, has anyone got any idea’s for me to surprise him with.