get over my fear of commitment

Every single time I think a guy is cute and if I find out they like me back. I’m happy.. for like three secondes. Then I start thinking, it’s not gona last this is going to end horribly. I stop thinking about the positives and only think of negatives. I can’t help it. Anyone have advice ? Very much appreciated.

I have no clue as to what is wrong with me, but it is nice to know that other people have felt this way… All that I know is that I can really like a guy and then when we date… that is when it goes terribly. I find myself afraid to spend more time than necessary with him, I get scared whenever a boyfriend complements me. I just get scared until the point where I break out in tears and then break-up. I get so embarassed and I try to override my subconscious, but it works out that way anyways.

i have the perfect boy,
ticks everybox, wants a meaningful relationship.
i just feel physically ill at the thought of making
a commitment to him- literally sick.
there is no logical reason
behind it that i can pin-point,
it should just be so easy.
any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.

It’s been almost 3 months! I do believe I can’t see myself in any other relationship for a long time.

And I feel like I want to commit for the first time in years. I think that I wasn’t afraid of commitment, I just hadn’t met the right person yet. I want to be with this one for the forseeable future.

I’m terrified of commitment. Something about being in love with the same person for 6 years and never having those feelings return while watching your parents marriage fall apart that makes you just not all that into being in relationships. I want to be able to but I need to find someone worth working on it with first.

I think I am just with a man that I don’t want to be with in that way. Perhaps I am not afraid of committment altogether, I am simply afraid of committment with him.

I let him bring over a toothbrush and leave some clothes at my house. I am squirming a bit.

He’s great. My freedom being lost is not.

Perhaps I need to re-think my relationship…

Boy, it took a while, but I finally lost the fear of being tied down and proposed to my girl late last November :)

I have a raging fear of commitment, I don’t even like to write with a pen!