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increasepeace 6 years ago


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secretsal123 16 months ago


secretsal123I am getting so much better at this

Some people are starting to call me a “trip” but I realize that honest is best. I am starting to become louder. lol 9 months ago


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secretsal123Untitled

So far, I think I’m getting better at this. I almost thought my boss was going to fire me that one time.

I still want to gain courage to do anything I want to. 16 months ago


secretsal123Untitled

I was voted ‘most quietest’ my senior year of high school. Everyone knew me obviously, but I didn’t have any friends, was shy, awkward, etc. I am smart and I graduated with a 4.03 gpa but I am so much more vocal now, although, there are SOME people who still see me as shy. I was realizing tonight how different I am now. This man at Hardees didn’t give me a fork, dressing, napkins for the salad I ordered and walked off in drive through-ignoring me. I waited 30 secs before honking. A year ago I would not have don’t this, rationalizing that I have the stuff at home. But you know what, I shouldn’t have to take it. I PAID for a salad that COMES with utensils and dressing AND I WILL GET IT. I’m not going to be a pushover anymore because it never gets you anywhere. 16 months ago


this is just a testI overcorrected.

This goal (as I initially intended it) was a success. I feel like I am talking to the boyfriend more, especially as the date of our moving in together approaches.

In regards to my sister, I feel there needs to be a boundary put in place. I need to limit her access to me. Therefore I will send or respond to her 3 messages/day via email. Reasonable, right?

Then at work I stepped in a huge steaming pile of it today. The most frustrating part is I know better. It’s not that big of a deal—my ego is only bruised. Character-building. 18 months ago


this is just a test 23 months ago


this is just a testwtf

I overheard one of my neighbors talking about someone; I have a pretty good idea she was talking about me. She said my behavior was stand-offish & weird. It hits a nerve in me. This is not the first time I’ve heard this or the first person I’ve heard this from—it goes wayyy back. You would think I would be used to it by now, but it still hurts just as bad as when I heard it for the very first time. 19 months ago


this is just a testloudmouth babe

I’m still not doing this. I think I’m too afraid of doing it “wrong” or what other people will think of me & say about me as a result, which is pretty silly because I have no control over that. I need to give myself permission to do this imperfectly—maybe even badly… 19 months ago


this is just a testUgggh

Sometimes I think it’s so not worth it, & things would be a lot better if I just walked away, unfortunately. 20 months ago


kiddykatt 21 months ago


mohamed lamine 21 months ago


this is just a testI am noticing more opportunities to speak up,

unfortunately they are after the fact. 22 months ago


this is just a testHelp!

I hate feeling like it’s pulling teeth for my boyfriend to get a verbal response from me, but my mind just goes blank sometimes. It’s mortifying. I get frustrated with myself, so I can’t imagine how he feels. 22 months ago


kysamay 4 years ago


BelleSolitude 2 years ago


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Natalie 6 years ago


lanalou1989Update

WEll I’m certainly learning to speak up with my boyfriend. In fact too often I speak too much and he is just the opposite and likes to keep quiet about everything. So this is quite difficult. And I’m good at being able to talk to other people like my friends just not so much my boss and higher ups. I’m working on it though. 2 years ago


BelleSolitudeagain.

exercise:
speak up once a week.
lesson to be learned:
nothing bad is gonna happen, + maybe something good is gonna happen. 2 years ago


DramaQueen95 2 years ago


aliuzer24 2 years ago


TheAmarant 2 years ago


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