stop trying to please everybody

I REALLY NEED TO DO THIS..I HAVE SPENT MOST OF MY LIFE TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYBODY ELSE AND HAVE NEGLECTED MYSELF…PERFECT EXAMPLE…I HAVE A FRIEND IN PITTSBURGH. I MOVED HIM FROM MICHIGAN TO PITTSBURGH…AND PAID FOR EVERYTHING…I DROVE HIM…EVERYDAY FROM MY PLACE…IN NORTHEAST OHIO TO PITTSBURGH EVERYDAY FOR A WEEK UNTIL HE FOUND A PLACE TO LIVE…THEN LENT HIM $400 SO HE COULD GET THIS PLACE…NOW THERE ARE REPAIRS ON MY CAR THAT NEED TO BE FIXED AND HAVE NO MONEY TO GET IT DONE…SO I REALLY, REALLY NEED TO STOP DOING THINGS LIKE THIS AND START DOING THINGS FOR MYSELF.

I get offended when I go out of my way to treat people with kindness, concern, and love, and people still have negative attitudes, no matter what I do. I don’t understand why I can’t make a difference.