I am in a relationship with the first person I’ve never had a barrier with-no place to hide, no covering things up or playing any games. And I will admit it’s scary, because it means that every emotion is heightened-every sweet word is mind-blowing, every perceived slight earth-shattering. I know he loves me every bit as much as I love him but this is a first for me, to be so open. And there are absolutely times I look at him and am so in love with him that it does hurt—not in a bad way, just as if my heart is so full it’s having a hard time containing all the love I feel. It’s amazing and wonderful and frightening but so very worth it, because you find out who you are and what you’re capable of.
How to love someone so much it hurts
How I did it: I respect him so much that from day one I have been very honest with him. I admire him and treasure the person he is, when I realized I was falling in love with him I decided that I wanted to tell him but that I was telling him because it was honestly how I felt, NOT because I wanted him to say he loved me too. I was open to him being wherever he was with me, in love or not. Well, what do you know he was feeling the same way and said it first! We haven't looked back yet and the more I get to know this man I have admired for 8 years, and now dating for 6 months, the more I love him. It hardly seems possible that it is happening to me sometimes.
Lessons & tips: Be honest with them and most importantly with yourself. If you don't like some the more you get to know then (what usually happens to me), they are not the right person for you. Move on you will find them eventually.
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Dont ever be broken or sad for something was great in your life.. if she or he deserve that it will be worth.. otherwise it will be always a sweet memos flying in your sky..
I met this bloke a year ago on NYE thought he was ok haha after that it took 6 months to see him again, we start “seeing” each other before he went all weird on me i thought he was seeing someone else. (he wasnt) he said we should just be friends after that. i was ok with this, then i fell for him. we ended up sleeping together a number of times and i aske him what he wanted he said he wanted me. then didnt call or text or reply to any of my messages for 3 weeks. next time i saw him he was all friendly with me and got me a really lovely xmas present. saw him in the pub bout 6 weeks after that with some girl turns out he’s with her so i told him i love him and he sed he feels the same but hes scared to be with me because he doesnt wanna lose me or hurt me. he said she is’nt special like me and we spent the night hugging. he asked why i was only tellin him now and i said cos its so hard to tell someone how you feel i was scared he wouldnt say it back and he said of course i would if said it back i feel the same. if he feels the same then why is he with someone else? when we are together its so perfect all the time and i cant imagine my life with out him. not seeing him till tuesday or wednesday going out of my mind not knowing how he is going to act around me. hoping we can get a 2nd chance!! Ive not slept all week or eaten cry all the time, everyones telling me to forget him but i cant. its so hard loving someone so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I do love someone so much that, sometimes, I physically hurt… like my ribcage is hollow, an echoey sort of hollow like an empty auditorium. I would do anything in the world for my cariad… The thing is, I am terrified of telling him how deeply I feel for him. I’ve told him “I love you” exactly once, but that can mean so many things to different people. It’s just such a private and a profound feeling that I think if I try to explain it I’ll just make an idiot of myself. Any ideas?
It’s worth it if the other person loves you just as much. I am so much in love with someone right now and i think of him night and day and we work together so i see him everyday but he acts all calm and cool and i think it’s because we are at work but i rarely get to see him outside of work and that’s why i think he prolly doesn;t feel the same way i do otherwise he would make an effort to see me more often outside of work. I love him! someone help me… i would do anything for this man. I don’t think it’s even healthy for anyone to feel this way.
It’s only worth it if they also love you so much it hurts them. Otherwise, the pain is all for not. And I don’t wish that kind of pain on anyone (except my ex-boyfriends).





