sept 28, 09
1 month ago
“I will prepare, and someday, my chance will come.” Abraham Lincoln
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How to let my soulmate find me. And focus on having a great life on my own in the meantime.
It made me
resigned
 "There are too many things on my list of goals. I have enough to do without worrying about finding love. Of course, this feeling may be fleeting. "
How I did it: I don't know whether any soulmates are looking for me, but somehow I've quit caring about it much. I dropped the online dating site and am focused on making changes in my own life. I know that there are ways to be happy and fulfilled without a soulmate around, and I've decided to pursue those things incase no mates ever show up. I'm not sure how to get to this place of resignation or contentment with singlehood - or whether it will last. But, I'm happy to consider this goal completed. At least for the moment.
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It made me
soooo happy 
How I did it: My goal was to stay single for a year, and make the most of it.It did not quite last a year, but I feel I definitely made the most of these 9 months, traveling, discovering new activities and sports, deciding to move away - and finally, letting my soulmate find me! Read how I did it…
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Sept 21, 09
1 month ago
I know the right person will come to me. There’s no use to be looking for him purposefully. I need to be more patient. I need to have faith.
life is good
2 months ago
At first I wasn’t exactly thrilled to be back in Canada, but now I’m having a great time and I seem to be attracting like-minded people towards me. Last time I actively pursued someone a little too quickly. Now I’m just going to relax and see what happens
mrcreed He who desires, but acts not, breeds pestilence.
this goal seems
3 months ago
to have become more about my soul mate(or lack there of) and less about having my own great life….guess ive been particularly lonely lately…
oh well,get over it…life is hard and nobody really cares anyway right
mrcreed He who desires, but acts not, breeds pestilence.
here i am...
3 months ago
HEY!....here i am…right here….No,over here ...wait….hey!...where are you going?...not thata way…im OVER HERE! geesh…fine be that way…
mrcreed He who desires, but acts not, breeds pestilence.
must look into
3 months ago
the possibility of maybe considering that a soul-mate might actually exist…somewhere…out there….
mrcreed He who desires, but acts not, breeds pestilence.
but
4 months ago
i’m wondering if my soul mate did find me…would i recognize her?
ponderous man,truly ponderous…
loupy_pro is enjoying the site again.
im still young
7 months ago
i am, so there’s still time for my soulmate to find me, but to help him along im going to get out more whenever i can with friends and new friends that i shall seek to find.
I want him to be my soulmate not just anyone,but how will i know, ‘you’ll just know’, says my dad, who i believe. HANG ON THOUGH I THOUGHT i knew before with him and him, however there was always sonething that wasnt quite right something small something i could ignore, but i know that when i know everythig will be in place perfectly.
It worked.
7 months ago
I did have a great time on my own, and now I feel that my soulmate has found me. I can´t wait for him to visit with me next month :)
