I want to forgive my now ex- husband for cheating lying and failing to commit to his marriage. I regret waiting for him 9 years while he was incarcerated , inspite of what everyone told me I trusted that my ,marrige would be blessed above and beyond the mess, He turned out to be a childish and anxious kid ready to run rapid in the world doing as he pleased to whom ever he pleased, all under the rationalization that he was grown. I was humilated and very hurt by the betrayal and total direspect and was able to divorce him without a fee. I truly need to forgive him so I can move on with my life and attract a healthy relationship. I claim victory over that situation right now and Forgive you Mr. HLS. 3 years ago

Growing up, I’ve always equated forgiveness with weakness, but now I realize that sometimes forgiveness is a sign of strength and wisdom. I thought that forgiving someone who wasn’t sorry or refused to change was like letting them off the hook for what they did wrong. I thought that denying them forgiveness was somehow making them accountable.
The fact is that I can’t make people change if they aren’t truly sorry for what they’ve done, and the only person who continues to suffer is myself. Holding on has only made me a prisoner to resentment.
I’m ready to move on, but it will take a lot of work. 3 years ago

Which put me in the hospital (twice), I realized that I HAD to get over this stupid situation. Yes, we both made a stupid choice to not protect ourselves, but now, it’s time to just, move on from this situation. I’m not going to let this hold me back and keep crying every night. I’m sure he’s moved on and yes I wasted a few years courting him, but now I’m done and going to just live the best quality of life possible. 4 years ago

i’m pained by everything i see.
i must move past these things i see.
i can’t hit bottom! i must forget!
before i remember, before i regret!

somebody help me! i need help fast!
i need to forget, to forget my past!
something to live, something to last!

i’ve found that fix
the one in the mix
i love it so bad i can’t be missed!

somebody help me! i need help fast!
i need to forget, to forget my past!
something to live
something to give,
something that will finally last! 4 years ago

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I made a lot of mistakes in my life but i have no regrets about it besides everyone does. i know it would take very long before i finally move on because the pain still remains. but i decided to forgive, forget and move on. everyone of us deserves to be happy but you are the one responsible if you would choose to be happy or be miserable for the rest of your life. so if you want to be happy… just be happy! just forgive and move on. :) 7 years ago

I feel like I have made a mistake. 2 weeks before I was proposed to, I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me. Now, he has been cheating on and off with this same woman for the whole 1.5 years we have been together. Everytime, I forgave him and gave him the benefit of the doubt. That last episode was it for me. I expected it to be final. I recently found out that he is back in touch with her. I know this for a month or so, but could find a way to confront him. In a sense, I blame myself, for knowing the type of person he was and still getting married to him. We have been married now for 9 months. What a way to start? I confronted him yesterday and he could not be honest and upfront with me. I do not know what to do 7 years ago

I think the more I do not forgive the more it hurts me. I know this other person has no clue how we feel or even cares. I am the one with a heavy heart & I need to let it go. It hurts more because it was aimed toward my son & his feelings were hurt. Just being a protective mom, but a year later is long enough….. 7 years ago