Learn to be alone without feeling lonely

lonely is a feeling who i feel it when all fo my famiely or freinds stand agns me like they r telling me we do not want u a part of us anymore i can not find any one to talk with so i hope u all help me in this

I must keep busy…Even if people don’t believe I feel lonely..They say, “You? Lonely? I don’t believe it! You’re to good looking to pretty to be lonely…to much going for you…” blah blah blah. I just have overwhelming feelings at times, I would say alot. Sometimes it’s hard to look people in the eye. I really don’t feel depressed, just lonely, I can be happy by myself if I am busy…I feel the root of it all is my relationship with this guy. I just totally feel comfortable when everything is fine, then I feel like he doesn’t feel the same for me when he doesn’t call or email me anymore. Well I guess I am a little “stubborn” and dont call him either…”butting heads” I dunno. Maybe? Well I started to give myself away more, writing him calling leaving little messages, I mean it takes two in a relationship… Is it good to give myself away and not expect anything in return? Or treat people the way you want them to treat you? Or a little of both? I don’t know I am confused… There is more to this alot more…Too much to write here…Thanks for reading out there whoever you are!

Well let’s see…my eighth anniversary is in a few weeks and my husband and I recently “separated.” He is in the Navy reserves and this year he has been on several missions; the last one was pretty bad and he hasn’t been the same since he came back. We had our problems but I thought we could work on them…he’s going to be gone for 6 months starting in march anyway for training in Michigan. He left again yesterday for another 3 weeks. I’m looking for steady employment so I have too much time on my hands for thinking and being sad. I do have a daughter who makes me smile and I am grateful for that. I need to learn how to be independent and take of myself and her; I need to learn how to make myself happy again. My heart just hurts so much…

We all have to accept that panging feeling of lonliness. However, how we deal with it is completely up to us. I am a believer in Jesus Christ and whenever I feel lonely I know I am not alone because God is always with me. I also use my alone time to self reflect. writing or reading or catching up on an old show or going for a walk. Best of all, use this time to possible think about all the people you wish you could be spending time with and call them up or write them a letter.

It’s a funny thing lonliness. I have found that lonliness usually creeps in when we have relationship problems with people that are close to us. I am twenty-two years old and I find it hard making new,GOOD friends. Most people seem content with surface-superficial-encounters that do not amount to more than a few seconds of interaction. I have a 16 month old daughter and a husband away in Afghanistan and lonliness hits me everyday because I feel like there is noone to relate to. In general, I am a happy person just looking to have a human connection beyond hi and how its goin well good bye. Is it possible?

I discovered a letter which suggested my wife was having an affair with a woman friend. She denied this and we supposedly tried to work things out. I then discovered that she was still seeing her, and had been for five years. during this time, this woman had come to our house for christmas dinner, my wife had asked me to do several jobs in her house and that they were planning to “marry” and buy me out the house. We are now separated, awaiting divorce. I was devastated, as you can imagine. A long time later, I met the most beautiful woman, but it only lasted a few weeks. This has added to my feeling of uselesness, that my life is over. I am so incredibly lonely and do realise that only I can change it

Im currently living alone, and I always get really lonely and rely on my friends, family and boyfriend. I want to learn how to be alone without feeling lonely, keep myself company and most of all learn to love myself and not feel the need to lean on others. I have problems getting the simplest things done when there´s nobody around me, just because im too damn lonely and cant get my ass up. I have to do this for my own good!!!

...tonite is the right night for me to set this goal. I am NOT alone in this world…intellectually I know this to be true…but emotionally, I can’t seem to internalize it. Someday, I will…at least I truly hope I do – this feeling is really one of the worst on the planet.

I am recently single…I was with him for 8 years…some good some bad. we have 2 beautiful little girls.

I find myself feeling like i have no one…(my girls are my world) I have my parents but that just isnt the same as cuddling with someone while watching a movie, or cuddling with someone in bed. just being close and feeling wanted by the opposite sex.

I hate the feeling and tired of feeling this way.

I give up…