stop being invisible

I only feel a little invisible at my school. I not too good at making new friends i need to work at that. I am a nice person but some people don’t see that so I just say scew them if they don’t like me, i like being me.:-) 13 months ago

Believe in yourself,live your life for you and only you. Validation from others is nice,but the most important person to care about what you do or who you are is the person looking back in the mirror. 15 months ago

I totally forgot about this site for eight months. I didn’t even make a conscious effort to be less invisible, but now I am. I think I adopted a more positive attitude somewhere along the way, which helped.

Now I’m translucent, gonna work my way up to opaque. :p

I feel a lot better, but I’m not done yet. :( 21 months ago

I feel like nobody cares.. but I also think I brought it upon myself. I need to be more social. 2 years ago

even though, im pretty sure im only invisible to the people who dont deserve to see me. 3 years ago

I feel like I am one of those people that no one would notice if they disappeared. I feel like this with my family, work, friends, etc… I am not one of those people that command attention 24/7 but damnit I want to be heard too. How do I get over this?? 4 years ago

even I’ve stopped noticing myself. It’s like, what’s the point? I’m nothing special, never was. I refuse to settle for this though. 4 years ago

has to do with being liked…fitting in…not that I am a rebel, far from it….for me it is more about my age, women over a certain year disappear. I refuse, I refuse to fit anyone’s idea of appropraite appearance for an over 50…I am beautiful and getting even better, that is my goal. I am so visible for the first time in my life and so very unafraid. 4 years ago

It’s weird how some people automatically command attention, while others are always unnoticed, even when they try their hardest to be heard. It doesn’t make sense…

I’m not exactly the “invisible” type, but I do have those experiences sometimes. I can stand next to someone for 5 minutes without them realising I’m there. Whenever I start to talk, someone else starts to speak over me. Sometimes I even resort to putting up my hand – it’s the only way to get people’s attention…even when I’m around my friends. I don’t really mind that much, but it can be rather off-putting sometimes. Anyway, I’ve decided to get rid of this goal, because even though I do feel invisible often, it isn’t that important. I dunno – there are other even more invisible people out there that deserve my attention. 4 years ago

I’ve decided this is a stupid goal, for me at least. Enough self-pity, and get on with life. Not everyone can be in the spotlight. 4 years ago

I’m lucky.
I have a lot of good friends.
It’s just the people I really want me to notice me never do. 5 years ago

Im too friendly and therefore invisible. Believe me. They see the word ‘sucker’ on my forhead. A month ago I decided to stop smiling so much and being overly engratiating. It has worked. I am amazed. I never knew you could be rewarded for not being so friendly…...or perhaps not being a doormat…. 5 years ago