AlmightyMooX reminds you that he's NOT 30, he's twenty nine ninety nine plus tax.
Not easy when I'm suffering...
3 weeks ago
...through High School Musical 3 and a room full of pre-teens.
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How to stop hating myself
It made me
peaceful
 "my own bestfriend"
How I did it: I hit rock bottom,and I was completely alone.And for me I just realized that nobody was going to be there for me except ........me! I was all I had and if I didn't love me and take care of me and see the good in me, then no one was going to.So I did I began to take care of myself as I would a beloved friend in need.I know this sounds odd but its how it happend for me.I am still insecure and not entirely confident,but I'm working on that.In the mean time I truly don't hate myself any more.And for me that is huge. Lessons & tips: I learned that to hate yourself is like living in hell.It has given me empathy for people who hate themselves and feel no hope.And it has taught me that being my own bestfriend is actually very comforting,not relying on others to make me feel good about myself is very freeing.
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It made me
feel loved
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AlmightyMooX reminds you that he's NOT 30, he's twenty nine ninety nine plus tax.
The Jay Oh Bee
4 weeks ago
...right now I’m in a job that I like, am good at, but am not sure I “fit” the mold for what is expected philosophically or socially in. These things keep me wondering (especially at this time of the year) if I will be employed following the summer, which I can’t afford to not be.
Don’t get me wrong, I really do enjoy working where I do most of the time, the thing is that there is no job security and I get the feeling that if I have a differing opinion (or voice it) I could be let go at any time.
The boss man and boss lady both recognize all of the good that I do, but in the same breath are quick to criticize my flaws. I’m very aware that I am not perfect, have a less filtered personality, and can be moody at times, but I am starting to doubt (paranoia, perhaps) if they will change their minds from my presence being tolerated as a necessary annoyance to me just plain not being worth hanging on to.
It’s a little tense, and though I am nearly certain that all will work out in the end, I hate living on the edge of a sword during the months of May and June.
Maybe I should change. Maybe I can’t change. Maybe I need to push the law school issue full throttle. I’ve bounced around enough in this career path to make me think it may not be the right place for me.
Where, oh where is the rich debutante that falls madly in love with me and is willing to fully fund our “perfect life?”
AlmightyMooX reminds you that he's NOT 30, he's twenty nine ninety nine plus tax.
Reality...
1 month ago
...is that the reason I can’t be happy no matter what, who, or how I’m doing is that I am not at peace with who I am, how I look, what I do, and where I’m going.
Maddi got a new puppy!!
Stupid Mistakes
1 month ago
I’ve made some extremely stupid mistakes and I absolutely hate myself for it. I need to get over it. I’m so mad at myself right now.
Just realized I hate myself
2 months ago
I think I’ve known for a while that I can’t stand this body I’m living in. I hate it. I hate the way I look in the mirror I hate going shopping. I don’t take care of myself, I don’t want to do anything. I know I’m not depressed I just feel like I’m in this funk and I can’t get out. I’ve never been in a relationship and I want to try but I know I can’t love someone else until I love me and I want to love me but I’m struggling with how to do that. But I’m going to try.
Untitled
3 months ago
As you can see, my ‘stop hating myself’ goal is below my goal to write assignment for one of my study courses. It’s not like it was more important, maybe ‘urgent’, but I just don’t think I can do something quickly about ‘hating myself’ one.
when will it stop
4 months ago
everynight i think it’s gonne be a better day tomorrow,but it never is.i just wanne be happy.i just wanne wake up and feel good about who and what i am. i dont wanne be rich or famous or watever…i just wanne be happy and not hate this person i am. i hate hating myself but i feel this self loathing cover me like a blanket. anyone out there feels the same??
stop hating myself
5 months ago
Pra eu parar de me odiar eu preciso ser feliz. Então serão dois objetivos q eu vou atingir. .
Untitled
6 months ago
This self hatred is the crux of everything I do.I thought it would get better in time.If I became more enlightened,more peaceful but I can’t because I hate myself so much.I’m not worth it.
Untitled
6 months ago
This goes hand in hand with ‘stop comparing myself to other people’ and ‘get off anti depressants’
I’ve come close a fair few times, but everytime I do, something horrible happens that proves me to that I’m right in hating myself.
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