I know this one is probably frowned upon by many people, and I’m still not certain how I feel about it. However, I’m very unhappy with my chest, and have never been overly pleased with it, but after several years of yo-yo diets, and starvation as a result of depression and so on, my boobs have started to become less than attractive, and a cause of great sadness everytime I look in the mirror.
I feel very VERY selfish about this goal, and there’s a part of me that hates myself for thinking it, especially as there are so many people with “real problems”, but I DO have real problems, I’ve suffered so much emotional turmoil over the years, I feel that if this is something that could help restore a little of my self esteem and confidence then it might be worth doing.
It will be a HUGE decision to make, and not something I will enter into lightly, but I am seriously considering it. 15 months ago
I dobt know if I’ll do this one or not… I m very petite with matching boobs. I’ve always wished they were bigger and said if I had the money I’d do them, but really I was always ok with them, pretty body confident, small but suited me etc… Then I got pregnant and experienced life with bigger boobs- I loved them! ... And after breast feeding 2 babies experienced the shitty after effects on already little assets! Seriously! Breast feeding one baby fine, but two have done their damage and I no longer like looking in the mirror. And my husband could and would pay for the op. But, we’ve had lots of financial help from my parents in the past,I feel like they would disapprove and think it was a waste of money and I don’t want to let them down. And I am embarrassed by the whole thing. Whilst I can say o m husband and my girlfriends I’d like a boob job I don’t like the thought of my parents/ family friends/work people knowing about it! Aghhh! 17 months ago
This is one of those personal things that has many reasons, all of which are hard to talk about. Been a silent goal since I was like 12. I wasn’t extremely serious about it until about a year ago. That’s when I noticed that it affects my life almost daily. Which seems/sounds shallow. But if it’s just for me and not for anyone else, then is it maybe just selfish? Is it really that bad to want something just for oneself? I don’t think so. 18 months ago