get along with my family

I will try not to let my mother’s criticism and nagging and my father’s temper get to me. In addition, I will ignore my older sisters’ sometimes judgemental attitudes. Mostly, I will try not to let the people who raised me dictate who I am today, as an adult, and will try to only take away the things I admire about them.

i should give this goal up…its not going to happen. I hate myself to much to be able to try and love somebody else. I’m the black sheep in my family and i have so much issues with myself…I take the anger out I have for myself at my family. So im just as much at fault as they are.

damn

by the looks of it no one comes on this forum very much – but i just need to get this out there

my parents have been fighting for as long as i can remember - constantly throughout my childhood. im 16 now and just a few months ago i refused to let my mom throw my dad out of the house. i guess i ve kinda changed since then. im never emotional any more - even less so than my older sister who is usually the one to ust tell everyone to fuck off and mind their own business. but now shes crying to my dad about what a bitch ive been the past months to her and i hear every word theyre saying. i treat her the same way she treats me. i just dont have the energy anymore to be the better person.

i feel disconnected from my friends- all of them are in arguments and im grounded for the rest of the week for absolutely no reason – well my mom and dad got in a huge fight this weekend for letting me and my older sister go out friday night when we were supposedly grounded. its insignificant stuff they fight about and i ve just stopped caring.

sure, if my mom tries to throw my dad out again i’ll stop her but in between i just dont care anymore.

my OLDER sister (18) is now telling my dad how inconsiderate it was of my to stick my fork in a cake without cutting myself a slice. ITS A FUCKING CAKE. my family just doesnt understand that we get along accept for the small, tiny, minute, INSIGNIFICANT details that tear us apart.

im tired of trying. i dont even sleep in my own room anymore because i feel so confined. i sleep downstairs on the living room couch but now i cant go to bed cause thats where my sister and dad are arguing.

i know no one is probably going to read this but i just needed to put it out there…

It’s silly that I don’t get along with my family and we rarely communicate. It’s not that hard to just be nicer!

i move out. and me and my brother have been hanging out.

i get along with them every now and then but they annoy the hell out of me and are the cause of like…60% of any of my stress

we just have a really fucked up relationship and i want us to get along more