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Cheater
2 years ago
I’m already a half breed (Caucasian/Mexican and Cuban), so any relationship I have is by default an interracial one!
Hooray!
How to be in an interracial relationship
It made me
elated 
"I looked for a relationship on the basis of personality and compatibility and happened to find two men who were racially different than I."
How I did it: I put my worries of what other people would think aside and focused on who would make me the happiest. Be open about your obvious differences and use the opportunity to learn about a new culture.
Lessons & tips: Look for compatibility, not color.
Resources: Being at a diverse college.
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Untitled
2 years ago
it really dosn’t matter what color you are…if you love another human being then you love them regardless…love is the best feeling..nothing can stand between me and josh’s relationship
And this matters because...
2 years ago
WHy does being in a interrelationship rock ppls boats? It’s not exotic or anything. I’m 1/2 Korean and 1/2 black btw. If you go on a date with a Korean girl and she’s a bitch… she not a “korean bitch” she’s just a “bitch.” do u kinda get what i mean? [pic of my future bf Ueda Tatsuya]
Untitled
2 years ago
I am german and had a relationship with a colombian guy for about a year. Before that I went on a couple of dates with a mexican and a peruvian guy.
Eventhough it didn’t work out, I don’t think I’d date a german guy in the future. (Except if he’d be that much into traveling, different cultures and languages as I am and could imagine to move to another country ;) but I haven’t met a lot of germans who think that way)
I think it’s definately worth doing or trying, because you can learn so much from each other. The way I experienced it, there will definately be a lot more problems, simply because of cultural differences, but it’s also a lot more interesting to discover, learn to accept and understand your partners traditions.
My relationship didn’t work out, but that wasn’t because of our different cultures that was just two people not being ment for each other :)
yakuza who has missed me?
I've been in many
2 years ago
I’ve dated, Korean, Irish, Brazilian, German, Chinese, Italian, Japanese, Thai, and prob a few others.
In actuality, I’m Korean, and Korean girls make me nervous!
Love - defined through race/culture?
2 years ago
Although I’ve never been in an interracial “relationship” – I’ve liked an Armenian-Turkish guy for a year now (I’m South Asian). Initially, I always viewed us being two different races as an obstacle… and thus never approached him about my true feelings. It’s now that I realize: does colour really define who you can love, and who you can’t? Just because someone isn’t from the same culture as you doesn’t mean that they don’t have the capability to love the same way someone from your own race/culture might. And if you really love each other, it can surpass all boundaries.
We are and continue to be
2 years ago
Me: Brown Bengali. Born in Bangladesh. Living in Scotland, U.K. since 1993.
My wife: White Anglo-saxon. Born in Northern Ireland, U.K. Living in Scotland, U.K. since 2001.
Our son: Tanned Bengali-anglo-saxon. Born in Scotland, U.K. in 2005.
married since June 21, 2000
2 years ago
I am a white American, and my husband is a first generation Pakistani immigrant to the US (his parents, in turn, were first generation Indian (Uttar Pradesh) immigrants to Pakistan).
I believe that relationships work/do not work based upon factors such as perseverence, cooperation, ability to compromise, and mutual respect. Although multiculturalism can offer a few (usually initial) obstacles, I have found that our cultural differences have greatly enriched our relationship.
