get rid of my ex

well he finally instead of every day 5 times a day calling now calls once a week.. maybe i should change my number i dunno..

i am happily married. i met my husband the day after i ended a very soul destroying 5 year relationship with the last boyfriend, for want of a better word. my husband and i have been together nine years this year. the ex-boyfriend came back into my life two years ago and hit me with a bombshell, that explains to some extent of why he was such a complete f&ckwit when we were … together, for want of a better word. i have felt sorry for my ex-boyfriend and wanted to help him through a rough time he was having. he’s now on my mailing list (i’m a singer + songwriter), he’s a myspace friend, and he has even put his hand up to be the new guitarist in my band (I hope to every higher power that he really does not like my music enough as he’s reviewing my cd), now i think that time is over and i want him out of my life. how do i get rid of him again? how can i get him out of my life yet still be friendly enough to speak and have a laugh if/when i see him when out socialising (this happens quiet often). i don’t hate him. i like him, but i don’t want to be a day to day friend with him.

Ok I have finally removed her from my im list. guess it’s just hard. I want to be her friend but things just always get weird. seems like she just wants to know i’m still interested in her. Why? I really have no clue.

confronted her about her tendancy to cancel on me at the last minute if she makes plans with me. she had a ton of excuses. I’m thinking that we will not be chatting at least for a while.

damn it.. she preemptivly stiked me. I was about to tell her i was busy adn she calle d and told me before i could even finish saying hello. i wonder if she is on here as well.

i foolishly made tenitive plans with her again. i need to stop doing this. i know at the last minute she will just back out anyway. I need to realize she doesn’t want to be my friend she just wants to control me even if just in small ways.

she is still there. Calling and iming me. I really just want us to be just friends nothing more. It’s so hard though when I hear her voice and she sounds lonely or sad, i find myslef wanting to run over and rescue her. I just have to remember that’s not my job any more. Hecks it’s been several years and a couple of relationships.