let go of my ex

My ex and I had a rough relationship, lack of communication was our main problem – for both of us, we both have problems with trusting. We’ve tried to work it out, but i found questionable things to make me doubt and i broke it off. a month later he says he doesn’t want to lose me. and at the time i didn’t either. I had strong feelings for him. But now I just think it’s time to let him go. Today i’ve decided not to let him keep me hanging along. taking a step back to observe the situation and after talking to friends (he wants me but at the same time he doesn’t). very confusing. I’ve vowed not to answer texts or calls or to call him anymore. Praying to God to help ease the hurt. I think this is for the better, focusing on school and paying more attention to myself!

How about if the person is telling you that she is still in love with you he can’t live without you but it can’t work so we’ll never get back together
what would you do if the person is telling you i have a new girlfriend but i want you to stay with me be my friend love me
what am I supposed to do when i call and his new girlfriend is answering his phone
how can i forget someone that i feel like i’ll die if he is not with me??
how can I not think about him when I am forced to see him everyday at the university?
Too many questions torturing me
Help

Yes! I briefly saw my ex today and I realized at that moment I’ve finally let it go! It helps to notice that my ex has let go of me… Which I think was an even longer and harder process.

just have too let go and alot of times part of me wants to hold on and i can’t seem to commit to just letting go. i am distracted and need to some peace.

My ex cheated on me and lied about it. I tried forgiving him once, but he hadn’t stopped seeing the OW like he said he had. So I left him, but I still love him. He has now cut off ties with her and wants me back, saying he’s ready to love me forever. But I don’t trust him and my friends mostly all disapprove of him. So I’m staying away. But it kills me that I love him and he says he loves me too… visions of a perfect future play in my head, although I know that’s likely fantasy. I have to move on, but I’m just not sure how.

A few days ago when I was meditating, thoughts of how my ex did me wrong and what I should have said and done started playing in my head on repeat once again… And then suddenly I started feeling this hard grey pain that I associated with the long-lost relationship. It lasted only for a few seconds, but it felt like a relief: finally, something real, not just idle thoughts after thoughts after thoughts. Is that the pain I’ve been hiding for years now? Could I reach it, finally, and then let it go, or do I still have to keep it locked up inside me?

Hey girls…and guys..

just wanna say something that i believe to be very true…
words that summed up my last relationship..

‘never allow someone to be your priority whilst allowing yourself to be their option’

we all deserve to be loved, cared for, respected…these people are our ex’s because they didnt quite fit our requirements-and not the other way around.. They are our ex’s for a reason…you broke up for a reason…which also means they were just a stepping stone on the way to mr or mrs ‘right’..

good luck

xx

...that this has to do with being able to live in the present and to be in the relationship I have at the present. I’m being hurt by the past only as much as it affects my present. And as I learn to break the harmful patterns I repeated in the last relationship and after it, and replace them with healthier ones in my current relationship, the past also lets go of me.

I can’t believe I created suck a silly entry!!! I’m sooooooooooo over my ex!!!!!!!!!

I’ve been trying to do this for a while now. We were good for a long time when he lived with me, but then he kept fighting with my parents so he moved out and bought the trailer right across the street(I live in the trailer park). So we still saw each other everyday, but the he found someone else. I see him everyday with her and it hurts all the time. Plus hes friends and works with my dad now so hes over here quite a bit…I’m starting to get over it tho!!