Ok, so I have a problem with making decisions. I mean I took entirely too long to make up a screen name for this site. When I go out to eat, I usually am the last one to order and when I hit a fast food joint, its takes me too long to order even if I go there so often that I know whats on the menu. I think I have this problem first of all because I am a very reserved person, so I often feel pressured to speak up and in turn become very indecisive when a decision needs to be made. I have taken so many different steps to force myself to get into the habit of making decisions, such as taking a leadership role & still my problem haunts me. I even notice my indecisive ways when I text people. I often find my self editing & editing my messages. But, I will prosper & beat my indecisive ways.
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So how do you stop being indecisive? It is really bad sometimes. I can’t decide what to eat for dinner, where I want to go out, etc. I look to everyone else to help me make decisions, sometimes they are decisions that i should have no trouble making. I think the 1st step to not being indecisive is maybe figuring out why I can not decide on anything! I have much work ahead!!!
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Gah! I’m so dam indecisive, I cannot make even the smallest of decisions. I think I just don’t want to take responsibility for anything that happens, I’d rather blame it on fate so its not my fault!
Just do it. Or if your exuasted wait a day and then do it. Actually it doesn’t matter if you do it or not. You’re going to die some day. Whatever
I think my indecisiveness problem is really one about having to commit to a decision. what if I find that I don’t like the decision I made? what if there’s a better altnernatve that I’m missing out on?
maybe the best way to stop being indecisive is simply to force myself to make a choice. if it so happens that I made a sucky decision, then hey – lesson learned. the point is to be decisive, right?
why can’t i just know what i want? why is it so hard to make decisions?
