be more patient with people who annoy me

I might not say anything, but my face says it all! It is difficult and I don’t want to be fake either by pretending not to be annoyed! :0

I really need to start doing this. I’m a very impatient person, and I have this terrible habit of showing the person how annoying they are in a really mean way.

is that it annoys me!!!!
Seriously, I’m having a tough time getting the thoughts in my head to turn to positive vibes when in a situation or around people who I find totally irritating and annoying.
I’m reading a good book at the moment ‘Overcoming Anger & Irritability’ by William Davies, and I can identify with everything it says but I just don’t seem to be able to be one of those cool & calm people who don’t let anything hassle or worry them. How do I do it! Any advice is welcome …..

I think I’m getting better. I don’t seem to notice other peoples’ personal noises quite as much as I used to. And, I’ve actually built a good casual friendship with someone who used to annoy the living piss out of me. Part of that’s her – but part of that’s me :)

but my patience was recently put to the test and I have to say I passed. Being patient doesn’t mean agreeing with something or going along with it. Patience is seeing something for what it is and taking it or leaving it. Each annoyance is different and can still be handled in different ways unique to the situation. The bottom line is, I’m not getting any closer to the things that really matter to me by being involved with outside disturbances. I’m not saying I’m perfect and aced this goal, but I’ve come a long way and I don’t think I’m going back.

sometimes is realy hard to don`t mind the people who annoys you… but with some practise you can use to them .. well i think so… Sometimes the things that is annoying us just isn`t the worth to get on our mind…

bah! bite my tongue and swear freely in my head!! then sometimes i get ‘short’ with ppl. yeah? stiff shit. dont annoy me then. this only happens at work!!

Annoying people. We can’t avoid them. For instance, most of us can’t choose who we work with or do business with. Sometimes I get so annoyed with people I encounter daily. My bosses are grouchy, my co-worker is one of the most annoying people I’ve met. Sometimes it’s easier to laugh at. After all, I can’t change people. It’s not my faul if they’re such idiots or losers.

Roller derby really helped with this. Being on the track with people who have an actual dislike for you and still not losing your temper when you are hit or they play illegally is worth something and has taught me about how to handle normal life, when they aren’t trying to kill you at least…

There were a lot of people annoying me today and I didn’t snap at any of them :)