fall in love with the right person

I realise that sitting at home, or running around being busy all the time, is not going to help me with this goal. I need to make time to actually consider what it is that I am looking for in a partner and then also what I want in a relationship. I have booked myself an evening on Friday, to write some lists…and then when I have done that I can start looking into getting myself out and about more.

The perfect partner is not going to just land on my doorstep. I need to tackle this as I would any other major change to my life, with positive energy and actually be proactive, a bit like looking for the perfect job.

If you don’t look, you won’t find

edit if you don’t know what you’re looking for you won’t find it either

Like so many other women, I seem to always fall for the wrong guy. I won’t list the things that went wrong, or the problems I had..I am trying to focus on the positive in my life.
I’m looking for someone who:
likes kids, as I have a son this is top priority)
can hold my attention with conversation
has eyes that show emotion
understands that sometimes, I just need to be alone
can make me smile, yes sense of humour really is important
doesn’t take life too seriously but knows when things warrant serious attention

I’m in love with a boy. We were together and so in love. We fell apart.. lack of communication and understanding.
We like to be near each other but I dont know if we are right for one another. He is a teriffic guy. We might just bring the worst out in each other. “Dating”? ... taking it slow.

We’ll see if I can do this. I’m thinking once I make it to Seattle it’ll happen. If it happens before I move to Seattle, then will that supercede my Seattle goal? All so challenging to arrange in the brain.

Dating is so hard. I’ve had a lot of unhappy first dates. But I’ve met someone who has made dating fun. I hope it lasts!!

So you know the quote that goes somewhat like this, “you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince charming”? Screw that quote. I’m sick of dating jerks. I’m not into dating around anymore. I just want to find a respectful man who treats me well, and I want to love him and be loved in return. I always seem to settle for guys I know won’t treat me well. I MUST stop doing this, and wait for the right guy. Its just that having patience is so difficult. I find myself wanting the right guy to come in my life on my own timing..but im realizing its probably best to wait. But then again…how do you know if hes the right one to fall in love with??? arrrrgh.

Sometimes my judgment is a bit faulty in who I fall for. I sometimes start liking guys who are not my type, and who I know aren’t relationship material. What I think I need to do is just be aware of guys who are overlooked, ones that you can tell are really actually sweet despite their appearances.

I’ve only fallen in love with a complete jerk who was selfish, a lier, a cheater, and a theif. He played me for a fool because I was naive and young “fresh meat”. Now I know better and I’m going to look at this as a life lesson learned and move on to find the RIGHT PERSON for me

i want to learn how to find a lady who truly loves me for what i really am

I always and up with a fake person or a cheater or lier and that makes me crazy….......true love is not made it’s just found.