get a 'best friend'

Maybe I dont want this. If I’ve learned anything about myself, ever, it’s that I don’t like being social and loud, and I think a best friend would jsut be one of those unrealistic things for me to have. How can I get a best friend when I hate almost everyone???

im not the kind of girl you would call popular or social. I actually prefer being with family than friends, unlessi have an amazing friend, but i dont atm. You see, ive allways wanted the best friend who would do anything for me, be truthfull and helpfull, who would wait for me if i got a detention or not go to dinner unless i was there ( of course if im not in then thats ok )and she wouldnt want loads of people to hang around with us, for it to just be me and her. Like Sisters. :( ive not found them yet !

( sorry about the spelling/grammar ect)i have problems. well tell me if this is anyway, you see i had a best friend in the first year of school, i got sick of her cz i she wanst what i thaught she was, so then i got another and same thing happened. then a few months after that best friend, some one invited ME to go to the cinema. ive never been asked to go somewhere by anyone. its usually me asking them ! anyway, i was good friends with her untill now. so i met her last year(2008 now 2009) in like october/nov/dec i caint think now but recently shes been acting mean, first iviting all of our friends to a big party at hers and not me ! then telling most of them the things ive said about them ( 2 or 3 people – there was about 10/11 going)even when she started the convos, and then they dont really like me much and now i dont have a best friend. but its not like im mean, i try my best to be kind to everyone, i cry over poeple in my school now who get picked on beacuse i know what it feels like. Im now in a state where i dont want to go out with friends all the time like everyone else and im also scared of inviting people over because im afraid that people will say no and now im trying to be good friends with another person, but i dont know if she will just end up being another one of the best friends that end up being horrible. :( am i a normal person, and does everyone have to go out with their friends every week. ? id rather be with family but i dont want to be a nerd ! please help me ! :(

Sadly, all of my past ‘best friends’ have got me into some serious trouble.

It seems like every time I meet someone, the are crazy. The last remotely nice person I met told me that she was a ‘Wiccan Werewolf’. Can you believe that??

I seem to attract these weirdos that think they can tell me anything, no matter how crazy it sounds, and I’ll just nod along in agreement.

So maybe sometime in my life I will actually be able to meet someone who isn’t a tad bit crazy or controlling or just plain freaky.

Maybe that sounded harsh, but I’m sick of all of my ‘friends’ walking all over me just because I appear to be easily taken advantage of…

i have always wanted a best friend in the most stereotypical way. i thought i had gotten a best friend when i realized, i was far from it. i had “chosen” her as my “best friend” simply because she was popular, if you will, only to discover within the next year we grew apart. It was because her very glitzy and fast paced popularity was something I couldn’t keep up with. We still talk from time to time but I realize, we weren’t actually all that close. We had just bonded over a rough patch in our lives but there was absolutely no substance to our friendship. I also realized that I had been neglecting my true best friend all these years. Even after I slighted her several times to hang out with “cooler” girls, she still would call me just to chat and all. I was of course a horrible friend to her but without her, I wouldnt have laughed as much as I’ve laughed. I def. would not be as happy as I am today.

I’ve wanted a best friend since i was 6 years old. It took me until I was 14 to meet her and then it took me another 4 years to realize her worth. The only regret I have is not being a good enough friend to her but we can all change that.

friends dont come easy for me, and i have never really had a best friend, i think having someone that you could always talk to would be really nice, i wish i had that

their names are Paris Ross-Zehery and Tuesday Thompson.

It feels like I always hold myself back from people.
I’m afraid to disagree with anyone. If I have an opinion that differs, I’ll just keep it in.
But part of a true friendship is to be able to disagree and still remain friends.
Maybe this is why I don’t have a best friend is because I haven’t let down my wall.

I was lucky enough to meet my best friend on a bus stop 16 years ago.
We were 14 years old and I never thought she would be closer to me than my sister and truer than anyone else in my life.
It’s not easy building relationships with others, you have to expose yourself and share way more then we are used to doing.

The major way you know if someone is good friend material is—can you argue with this person? If you can have a serious disagreement and then work it out then you know that you have potential to make it work. My best friend has been with me through some of the darkest times in my life and has loved and supported me unconditionally.

You also have to be willing to give selflessly as well. Even after all these years we still learn new things about each other. I don’t know what I’d do without her…

Another important point is never let anyone come between you, if you’re a fair weather (boy/girl friend) meaning if you disappear when you get a new bf/gf then you probably aren’t best friend material, and should just plan on having a string of acquaintances.

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