never make a priority of someone who makes me an option

I see my response as pretty worthy of this goal. Good job, Soph.

Had a free tarot card reading at a party recently. Don’t believe in that shit at all, but hey, it was free, I couldn’t say no. She told me what she could probably tell 95% of women and have it ring true—“Stop settling,” and added that “your compass is broken” whatever that means.. my relational compass? who knows… She also said I need more female energy in my life (hello, I’m in social work, I doubt I need more…) and then added “you know, do something, like take a belly dancing class or something…” which is amusing, only because I already have it on my list for the year. So I guess I’ll take the lady’s advice on that one.

I should really try and actually follow this rule for life. It’s good to have it here as a reminder.

Get a grip, robotentrails.

from andreakw. I think this is a life goal that hopefully i can be satisfied with on my death bed. In the meantime, there’s therapy.