get over her

I’ve decided to distract my thoughts of my ex, with my friends. One in particular, I don’t mind not having sex. I just want to be close to a girl, and that’s exactly what I’ve got. Yes, I like her, but I’m gradually coming to the terms that it is unlikely that anything will ever happen between us. It’ll just take time.

I have a really big problem with getting attached to people, and considering both my relationships have been long-term, I guess this thing is about both of them.

I need to stop caring so much about exgirlfriends/girls I like, and I need to learn to get over people, when I don’t have a chance any more. I don’t have a clue how to do this, but I hope I can.

I’ve been trying to do this for three and a half months. She and I were very much in love. I found out that she would tell people that I am (was) the one for her. Then things changed rapidly and I still don’t understand why she changed?

Everytime a few days passes and I begin to make progress, she calls. I have to stop having false hope and stop taking her calls. I hate it, but I won’t be able to move on otherwise. I don’t want to be in love with someone who doesn’t love me anymore.

Right so heres my problem

I’d been going out with my ex for 7-8 months…not long I no

I was in a relationship for 3 years before her and never felt about her like I did about this new girl

So we split up about 4 weeks ago
Ive tried everything to win her back and got nothing
Presents
Cards
Letters
Emails
Texts
Romantic Gestures…..Nothing
Finally she told me to stop and give up….which broke my heart even more

I no after time ill move on but its extremly hard
Ive deleted her number
every message and text from her
and deleted her facebook

This pain sucks but I no I’ll move on

This time I mean it!
I want Kids, I want to be a mom. She doesn’t- her only son is 12 and she is finished. I said we could just have an in home daycare, she doesn’t want this either. We just want different things. We are different people.

No other way to say it…

WASTED TIME by: Me’Shell NdegéOcello
You rarely notice but I hang on your every word
Everything you say
You are much too busy to notice me
You turn and walk away
Into another’s arms hopeless ashamed
I wish I could hold you that way
Brokenhearted I dream for you to notice me

Wasted time on loving you wasted time
Wasted time on someone
Who won’t love you as much as I
As much as I as much as I as much as I

In my fantasy you are asleep beside me
I feel you breathe
If only I could be there for you
The one that you make love to

Wasted time on loving you wasted time
Wasted time on someone
Who won’t love you as much as I
As much as I as much as I as much as I

I’ve been in love with Kansas since October 2006. We live in two different states but far too close to have only met in person once (Nov 2006). Its nothing physical but I love everything about her. I can not count the times I have proposed (and meant it!!!) I wanted to give up Africa, I wanted to give up everything, just to make her mine. But she’s never been real with me. Never told me that she loved me. She doesn’t deserve me. I always say I’m moving on. That this is nothing and there is no reason it should occupy so much of my time… and then she calls—-

I have someone else now, but yet I still can’t get over her completely.

Maybe I never will. Songs like “What’s a Man To Do” by Usher don’t offer much help.

I wonder if I’m deluding myself for thinking that she still has feelings too.

3 cheers so far.

It’s already been a year. I thought time heals but not for this.

Just get a f*ing life already.

I know its for the best yet I still cant give it up.

Your head say one thing yet your heart the opposite.

What shits me is that I do meet alot of wonderful ladies out there.Wtf?

No point pointing fingers.

No point being hard on myself.

Just have to be patient with me.

Accept myself.

Accept my life.

Accept the universe.

Accept :)

Perhaps one of the hardest things I have had to do in awhile… and yet it is feeling very good to finally be honest with myself. It is over, and that freedom is what I wanted.

Get over her cos she has hurt me too much and there are better people out there. Plus NEVER hook up with her again.