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wraiths82How do you make friends?

How do you end up hanging out with others?

The friends I have from teaching are all busy with their lives and every attempt I’ve made with a good chunk of them is completely welcomed then dismissed. People agree to do stuff then cancel. They say they’ll call and they never do. I don’t go to church, my job won’t start till August and I seem to be alone more often than not. I laugh with others, try to talk with them and don’t if they seem closed off. I just don’t know what to do…. 2 years ago


wraiths82Should I go and take the test for getting my WA state teaching license?

Money is tight, what with unemployment only covering so much and no job on the horizon. I’m thinking it would be an added bonus on my resume and another state to search for a job in. However, if I’m going to do it out of WA state, like go to AZ-stay with family and take my test there in June, I’ll have to pay $150 for the test. I’m looking at tickets to fly out there and they are $250-$300. That is basically the whole of one unemployment check. I’m not sure what is going on job wise. I want to say I’ll have a job asap but so far that hasn’t been working out. My permit for teaching in WA runs out in October, so if I don’t have my test taken by then, I’m out of WA state for looking. I have spent money and time already towards this. June is the only time I can take the test in a state other than WA. The good thing, would be I don’t have to be on a plane for as long as I would if I flew to WA. I have to decide by Friday as after that the price to pay for the clas slumps to $190.

Any suggestions? Thoughts? 3 years ago


wraiths82Omnivore's Dilemma by Michael Pollan opened my eyes a little more

to the whole truth behind our food. I’d watched Fast Food Nation as well as Super Size Me and thought that much of what I saw on there was horrible and that the morals/ethics of big business is something I can’t stand.

This is a must read this book if you have not.

pg. 56
Beef tallow(fat) is something they feed cows as well as feed cattle protein to other types of animals. Feather meal and chicken litter(that is, bedding, feces, and discarded bits of feed from chicken farms) are accepted cattle feeds, as are chicken, fish and pig meal.


Further in the book it talks about free range chickens which I’m sure to most brings to mind chickens running around in a field/farm. This isn’t the case usually. One example was a place where they kept the chickens in an enclosed space for the first 5 weeks, and then opened a tiny door so chickens could then access the outdoors for 2 weeks before being slaughtered. However no chickens went outside as this was unknown to them.


Quite simply put, we are wasting money buying things from overseas that we could sustain here. We could buy local, reduce our carbon footprint and save gas. We could return to a system where farmers had more traditional types of farms with variety and choice and didn’t have to depend on the government. It would reduce waste runoff as it would run in a circle of life idea. It makes so much more sense than making food that goes to waste, or has so many chemicals in it, that it has to wait for days for the poisons/fertilizers/toxins to leach out before we can eat them(example given was potatoes).

I’m looking into Animal Liberation by Peter Singer to get more info, so I’m reading a different book, same idea by him.

Important links-
http://www.eatwild.com
http://www.foodroutes.org
http://www.jamieoliver.com/school-dinners
http://www.100milediet.org
http://www.activekidsgetcooking.org.uk
http://www.bbcgoodfood.com/content/knowhow/kids.cooking/1
http://www.informedeating.org
http://chefsters.com
http://www.eatlocalchallenge.com
http://www.eatwellguide.com
http://www.edibleschoolyard.org
http://www.leopold.iastate.edu
http://www.localharvest.com
http://www.mycolog.com
http://www.nffc.net
http://www.panna.org
http://www.skyvegetables.com
http://www.slowfood.com
http://www.spoonsacrossamerica.org
http://www.sustainabletable.org
http://www.verticalfarm.com
http://www.westonaprice.org
http://www.wkkf.org 3 years ago


wraiths82Gah. This just makes me feel crazy.

Do people really believe America gave AIDS to wipe out the blacks? ! ? !

http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=58928

http://wizbangblog.com/content/2008/03/13/obamas-preacher-in-his-own-words.php

Then check out “Then it definitely did come from Africa?” section on this one-http://www.avert.org/origin-aids-hiv.htm

How do others feel about this guy that’s associated with Obama? 3 years ago


wraiths82I love sweet wines aka dessert wines...these are recommended from the book WineWise so hopefully I'll try them someday..

Bargains under $12
D’oro, Riunite, Italy
Leonard Kreusch Late Harvest Riesling, Germany
Quady Electra (white) or Elysium (red), California
Robert Pecota Moscato d’Andrea (half bottle), California
Royal Oporto LBV, Portugal
Sanderman’s Ruby or Tawny Port, Portugal
Tishbi Emerald Riesling, Israel

Bargains under $20
All Sherry from Spain, especially Hidalgo, Lustau, Osborne, “Tio Pepe,” and Domecq
Alois Lageder Moscato Giallo, Italy
Blandy’s 5 Year Special, 5 Year Malmsey, or “Rainwater” Madeira, Portugal
Cascina Castlet Moscato d’Asti, Italy
Ceretto “Santo Stefanto,” Moscato d’Asti, Italy
Chiarlo Moscato d’Asti “Nivole”, Italy
Cockburn’s Special Reserve or “Anno” LBV Port, Portugal
Croft Fine Ruby Port or “Distinction” Ruby Port, Portugal
Dow Fine Ruby, “Trademark”, or LBV Port, Portugal
Fonseca Bin No. 27 Port, Portugal
Grahams Fine Tawny, “Six Grapes” or LBV Port, Portugal
Osborne Ruby, Tawny or LBV Port, Portugal
Paolo Saracco Moscato d’Asti, Italy
Quinta do Crasto LBV Port, Portugal
Ramos Pinto “Fine Ruby” Port, Portugal
Sandeman’s Founders Reserve Port, Portugal
Smith-Woodhouse “Rich Ruby” Port, Portugal
Taylor Fladgate First Estate Port, Portugal
Warre’s Warrior Port, Portugal
Lustau Papirusa Manzanilla, Jerez, Spain
Cockburns Late Bottled Vintage Port, Portugal
San Felie Vin Santo di Chianti Classico, Toscana, Italy

Bargains under $30
Dow’s Ten-Year-Old Tawny Port, Portugal

Sweet under $15
J.M. Fonseca, Moscatel de Setubal, “Alambre,” Portugal
K.E.O. Commandaria, “St. John,” Cyprus

Sweet under $30
Foseca, “Bin 27,” Porto, Portugal
Graham’s, “Six Grapes,” Porto, Portugal
Quinia do Crasto, Late-bottled vintage, Porto, Portugal
Adriano Rmos Pinto Late bottled vintage Porto and Ten-year-old tawny Porto, Portugal
Cossart-Gordon, Five-Year-Bual, Madeira, Portugal
Leacock Five-Year Malmsey, Madeira , Portugal
Lustau, Pedro Ximenez, “San Emilio,” Sherry, Spain 3 years ago


wraiths82Education...administration...complication!

I’d like to know how other teachers out there are doing with their administration?

I feel like mine is smothering me with extra meetings, useless information and time consuming work(busy work!) rather than actually helping us with some of the porblems. Is this true elsewhere?

The administrator in charge of my department just never seems to be able to say something nice and leave it at that. She might make a positive remark, but then ruin it with several negative, down-putting remarks. She wants me to invite her to my class, but I seem to constantly hesitate.

Anyone else feel like this?

TGIF tomorrow! It has been a week of struggling to stay on track and not cry, drink, etc!4 years ago


wraiths82Why can't we bring back the restrictions on tv with all the ads for drugs and

limit the amount of time campaigning?

I remember watching cartoons and not having to see ads for viagra, lipitor or any other drug. I remember being able to enjoy toy commercials. I wish that age would come back, because most of my students can recite the effects of viagra and recognize those commercials better than the parts of speech.

Time campaigning? Simple, go to the way overseas, where it’s limited. Less cost to the candidates and less time to tax every citizen with “Who’re you going to vote for???” Get a grip, we have lives, and we don’t need to watch ads trashing the other candidate either. Limit it, put restrictions, show that we stand for some good morality and ethics rather than “smear” campaigns.

Check out the factoid on the pic, average Americans watch 16 hours of drug ads a year. Hey drug agencies-stop it! 4 years ago


wraiths82Instead of testing students to death,

why not limit the tests to one major test, let us keep our semester and final exams, and give kids a break? At the school I’m at, we’ve already had two sets of benchmarks, covering writing, reading, math and science, plus the make-up days for that. Add in the drills both fire and code reds, along with pep rally, school pictures, whatevers, instructional time is seemingly the last concern.

I have a huge amount of literature I need to get through to the students and a tinnnnnny bit of time allowed to do it!?

I wish administration would take a more common sense approach to things. Not all kids are going to college. I mean, we may want them to, but if the kids don’t want to, it’s like slamming your head into a brick wall repeatedly. Which needless to say, hurts like hell. Why don’t we have vocational schools? Some students are only interested in those things. Instead if they find something they like but don’t pass the FCAT, we take that away and put them in a double block of something they don’t like!?

I don’t know how much more we’re going to try things until someone gets the big honcho’s attention and says STOP!? 4 years ago


wraiths82When all is said and done,

do we ever really grow up?

I know we do physically, but emotionally? Mentally?

Thinking about childhood and sometimes wishing to go back to those simpler times…at least they seem so simple now…When the big worry was which toy to play with next…4 years ago


wraiths82I know this could be a bad question but its overflowing the corners of my mind...

What does it take to make a marriage work?

Is it wrong to take the stance that you’ve given all you can give? (back against the wall analogy)

If you’ve been married a really long time, say 25+ years, should you work harder to stay together or just let it go? 4 years ago


wraiths82Election time coming up...

Are You Going To Vote?

I plan to. I have had the chance recently to talk with a younger crowd who just don’t seem to care enough to vote. My parents have always voted, and I believe we do make a difference when we show up and do so. Yes, Florida gets a hard rap for past stupidity at polls-but honestly I am glad I get to vote. I don’t understand all these people who have the chance to vote and just don’t. They say they won’t complain, but I’ve already thought about it, they already do-so go vote and change who’s in office! When we sit around, letting others decide our fate for us-we annihilate our freedoms and candidates who could’ve/would’ve done better if they’d been elected.

Vote….I believe it counts, don’t you? 4 years ago


wraiths82Why are we paying more for half-gallons of icecream but getting less??!?!?

I’ve noticed at the grocery store that many brands are downsizing their half-gallons. Breyers specifically has a 1.75 and a 1.5 serving now instead of the standard and I must say it correct serving 1.89 for a half-gallon. What is going on? If we are getting less, shouldn’t we be paying less too?? 4 years ago


wraiths82Why in every prison scene lately, do they have a little person there????

I noticed this today in the movie Hancock-the very popular little person-Martin Klebba aka Marty from movies such as Pirates of the Caribbean and the show Little People, Big World was in the “tough” scene between Hancock and cell block big mean dudes.

What are the statistics of crime for the little person population?? I have thought back to all the prison scenes I remember from various movies, and they all seem to have a little person in there.

The odd things we notice…4 years ago


wraiths82This was a picture I took on a day playing hooky from school :)

Doesn’t it look like the clouds are passing right between the two condominiums?

I thought they did and for once took the picture! 5 years ago


wraiths82What is romance?

What is your idea of romance? Have you experienced it? Is it just a dream/daydream to you?

To me, romance is more than just flowers/candy as the conventional cookie cutter type goes, its the way you act with each other, little surprises(good ones). Its the little things and yes sometimes the big ones. It can be watching a chick flick and just not saying anything bad, then when we watch a guy movie we do the same for you. Mutual appreciation. The whole caring, sharing and helping out. It’s not just saying you want the best but actually doing it too, I don’t think I have ever been truly romanced…I’ve had some half-hearted attempts but nothing major.5 years ago


wraiths82Why if we're going for helping the environment do car manufacturers keep building gas guzzlers!?!?!?

I got on AO Hell today and one of the top stories is about the newest Hummer and its bigger and gas guzzling as the article states in its 5 second clip. What the hell?

All the stuff about the environment going to hell in a handbasket and they’re still coming out with these things? I understood it when it was for the army and they needed to do stuff with them. Now its for the everyday, or rather insane money rich people who will buy them. My town alone has at least 5 and the median salary here is under $30,000.

There is some lightening in this as at work, MSN keeps bringing articles to my attention about gas savers, and hybrid vehicles that are hitting the market.

However if we’re truly about helping the environment, shouldn’t they not be doing these types of cars/suvs/behemoths any more?

Side note-most of those who are driving the hummer that I’ve seen, are usually the only ones in it. 5 years ago


wraiths82Oldie but goodie- Do people change? Is it possible for people to change from destructive habits?

Many variations on this question have been asked. I’ve been thinking about it, as it just is like you get used to a routine and one day you realize you want something different, a change and seem to have no idea how to go about it. 5 years ago


wraiths82Another interesting book brings to mind more questions.. We Wish To Inform You That Tomorrow We Will Be Killed With Our Families by Philip Gourevitch

The bit about it reads: An unforgettable firsthand account of a people’s response to genocide and what it tells us about humanity, this remarkable book chronicles what has happened in Rwanda and neighboring states since 1994.

Out of this book brings questions of will genocide ever end? What will it take to make it end? Do you believe that genocide happens or are you one of those disbelievers(ones who don’t believe the Holocaust happened etc.)?

This was definitely a sobering book. I knew some of what had happened from bits on 60 Minutes but hadn’t ever read up on it. This book really gave some detailed accounts like the man whose 9 month old son was playing with 2 grenades when a neighbor found him and rescued him after the killing massacre had gone through that area. Another example was that the conditions were so horrible that many would lose limbs or have to have them amputated, the writer saw one man reach down and break off one of his toes that had rotted so much..the mass graves..that so many witnesses when confronted with it would laugh and or deny..that the vicious cycle repeats.. The Holocaust survivors are noted saying that the cycle repeats and what to do. The quote that struck me the most from the Rwandans was “Genocide. Bury the People. Not the truth.” The shock of reading how some knew that they were scheduled to die and DID NOTHING to fight it. That a group of school girls refused to declare themselves Tutsi or Hutu, and just declared they were Rwandan, and for that they were killed. Atrocities many of these and just amazing what they survived and what they deal with on a day to day basis compared to so many US citizens. It makes me feel like smacking the next person who moans and groans about their life and reminding them of this horrible atrosity that happened not so long ago..only 13 years ago. 5 years ago


wraiths82Hmmm....some I've been thinking about..

1) Do you think it’s possible to have a world without bias?

2) What do you consider pride to be? (is it good/bad or neither or what’s your take)

3) What is your biggest sin?

4) What do you fear?

5) What do you dream of when the going gets tough? 5 years ago


wraiths82Excellent reading material that'll make you think about credit and all the horrible fees,

and some about the birth of credit cards etc. Check it out-its by Jame D. Scurlock and it’s called Maxed Out: Hard Times, Easy Credit, and the Era of Predatory Lenders. Apparently there is a movie about it and I’d like to see that too.

This is taken from the very end of the book and might interest others about this topic. “To learn more about the history of lending, or about the organizations involved in AFFIL, to share your story or learn how to protect yourself against predatory lending, I’d encourage a visit to www.americansforfairnessinlending.org You can also contact them at 77 Summer Street, 10th Floor, Boston, MA 02110

Interesting factoids & bits from the book:

a) Sarah, Duchess of York by the end of her marriage was $7 million in debt!

b) “We see names like ‘Bank of America’ and we think, ‘Those guys aren’t going to take advantage of me.’ But the truth is, those are exactly the companies that will take advantage of you.” -Bud Hibbs

c) Scary summary of events with credit card stuff(imho) by Walter Wriston who was apparently a brainchild with Citigroup Center.

1972-In Worthen Bank & Trust v. National BankAmericard, Inc., the United States Supreme Court gives banks the right to use both the MasterCharge and Visa Systems to issue credit cards, cementing the natural monopoly.

1978-In Marquette v. First National Bank of Omaha, the United States Supreme Court gives banks the right to “export” interest rates across state lines, i.e., to charge whatever interest rates they so desired anywhere.

1981-The Federal Reserve and the comptroller of the currency approve Citibank’s credit card office in South Dakota, effective killing the McFadden Act, which prohibited banks from making loans across state lines.

1996-In Smiley & Citibank, the United States Supreme Court allows banks to charge whatever fees they see fit. 1997-Congress approves the merger of Citibank and Travelers Group, effectively killing the Glass-Steagall Act, which prohibited banks from cross-selling insurance and other investment products.

d) President George W. Bust awarded Wriston(who set in motion all that stuff in c) the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2004, despite all the foreclosures, bankruptcies, and defaults all at higher levels than during the Great Depression. Anyone out there getting that? This guy helped bring the credit card companies to all our doors easily and despite all the people declaring bankruptcy, and huge piles of debt-our freaking President awards him a medal WTF?

e) The credit card companies are allowed to charge us all the fees that 20 years ago, over half of them didn’t exist!

f) Credit card companies “share” information. That means they can buy and sell your information, including your name, social security number, address, phone number etc., no questions asked. In fact many of the banks you see sell and buy this information for millions of dollars. You can of course object, and say please don’t do that, but the companies can still do it anyway. Ex-ten years ago, First USA paid the University of Tennessee $19 million for access to its students and alumni-all their info like I was talking about, which set off a bidding war for access to college students.

g) The big bankruptcy ordeal back in 2005, which by the way, was supposedly their biggest thing to do in the Senate-affects only 5 to 10 percent of the total number of Americans who go bankrupt.

h) Very sad stories about people getting into huge debt-but this one really got to me… I’ll summarize it.

It’s about Janne who took her son Sean to college, he was a National Merit Scholar from a small town in Oklahoma, going to college at the University of Texas in Dallas. While there, he gets tons of credit card offers, and lands in $12,000 in debt with 10 credit cards. He drops out, moves home and finds himself working two minimum-wage jobs, paying down the cards and saving money to declare bankruptcy. Anyhow, Janne & her husband had to discuss whether to bail Sean out of his debt or give their younger son the chance to go to college. In the end, they couldn’t see denying the younger son, so Sean accepted the decision, told his mother he felt like a failure, and two days later hung himself. Thereafter Sean’s memory was commemorated by a constant stream of phone calls from bill collectors, threatening letters, and more offers for credit, one of which read, “We want you back!” One day a collector called up and suggested that Janne should pay up to honor Sean’s memory.

“I gave you my son,” she replied, “What more do you want?”

I think that is simply horribly sad and a sign of how far ethics and people have just stepped over the line so much. An aside, my grandpa died back in Jan. 2004-and we’re still getting offers for him, and he died with alot of debt-something like $20,000+! It feels like these people behind the credit card companies have lost their humanity, and just don’t care about anyone, it’s all about them getting that bonus, etc..5 years ago


wraiths82The insanity of tv and stars hit me, and steam me sometimes.

1. Do you believe stars deserve special treatment?

2. What would be some punishment/bail/fee program you could put in place? (any ideas?)

3. Are stars just reflections of us, or do you feel they’re in their own little orbits sometimes?

I’m reading a book called Maxed Out, and just thinking about all the gossip about Lindsey Lohan’s DUIs, trying to figure if there is a better program for stars to go through. Perhaps a reality check? (muahahaha)5 years ago


wraiths82Here are a few I've been thinking about...

1. What do you fantasize about when things are rough or hard?

2. Do you ever feel like a little fish in a huge pond, in the scheme of things?

3. What is your idea of a perfect job, if there is one?

4. Do you hope to live a life with no regrets or do you think you’ll have some?

All this flits through my mind on my drive to and from Stuart now. I watch others in their cars/trucks/suvs and wonder how aware they are of others. I daydream about a perfect job, as I miss teaching while I’m doing temp bank work… most of all I hope to live a life with no regrets.5 years ago


wraiths82What is your idea of perfection? i.e. a perfect moment or perfect time...

I used to feel this alot when we’d have huge family get-togethers. I loved the feeling of family, the joking, the camraderie. It was great to see all of my relatives and chat and just be together.

An alternate moment was when I was fifteen, and was wearing a pair of skinny shorts. I looked down at my body and my book and felt like in that moment everything was perfect. I admired what I had and felt complete in it.

What’s yours? 5 years ago


wraiths82Why when someone breaks up, do they want to know everything that was wrong? Why don't they understand that it makes it worse to go through telling everything

wrong?

Recently went through this myself, and was really frustrated that he kept asking about it all. I guess that leads to my next question..

Why don’t (some) people listen?

It’s like there are directions out loud and on doors to do something. However, a stranger walks in, rather than reading any of it or listening, they just attempt it first. Then they start looking around for help and realize the other options are there. Perhaps not the best example but I feel like I’m unravelling a bit right now.

Share away… 5 years ago


wraiths82Why is it we, as in humans, are almost never happy with what we have?

I mean, I thought for the longest time I wanted to be loved by someone outside my family in a romantic fashion, and now I have it, and no longer want it! All the little quirks in the personalities are clashing and it’s not pretty a majority of the time.

I thought I wanted to live elsewhere. I am now, and severely miss my hometown in Florida. It’s so cold already where I am! I thought I couldn’t wait to get out, now I can’t wait to get back in.

It’s like looking for a perfect moment? Then trying to catch and hold on to it!

It all goes back to Chaucer for me, with my college class in Davie, where I learned about the wheel of fortune and life. There were times when it was really really great and times when it was really really bad.

I know life is what you make of it, but I’m curious to others opinions on this topic. Share away. 5 years ago


wraiths82Watching the movie-Who Killed the Electric Car? just raises so many more questions for me...

1. We had the electric car, the EV1, that GM recalled that was so much more efficient than this hydrogen powered and affordable. Why are none of the politicians saying what the hell? this isn’t affordable for consumers? We need to bring back the electric cars. Why isn’t there a big movement for this on a global scale? or at least a united American scale?

2. How can anyone feel that the Hummer is a better choice than the electric car when it comes to fuel efficiency and costs?

3. When there is a conflict of interest between positions that people take when on the boards of corporations and they get hired at a new opposing company-why aren’t there safeguards against this?

4. Instead of having lobbyists in Washington, DC, why can’t we disband it-and have that money go to ….oh something better like fuel efficiency or health care or EDUCATION????

5. What about the idea of not paying those people who are in executive/legislative maybe even judicial branches of government? These are people who seem beyond far removed from the everyday consumer. Have them be like Arnold Swartzeneggar in California, and donate the money back to the state or something!

6. Why isn’t there accountability for politicians where they can’t bullshit or lie with their answers? We’ve seen so much from the Enron executives to all sorts of higher up officials with basically scamming people/companies to make more money and get away with it quite often.

7. If it’s shown how bad we’re hurting the environment with the use of SUVs and other gas guzzlers, why can’t we make them disappear and replace them with better ones? Give tax benefits and money back and rebates. Take those SUVs and such, and use the parts for something better. If they can’t be used, then recycle them in a way that helps the environment rather than just adds to it.

8. Why can’t we do something so we are not so dependent on oil/gas? Unite the people, instead of these emails I keep getting and following-do something seriously. Get the public and celebrities involved. Give tax breaks for that too! Don’t give tax breaks to the oil/gas companies! They are the ones who are profiting so much from this.

9. Why aren’t we using the technology offered to us now, and offer that to everyone rather than settling for the Hydrogen thing that isn’t available for 10 to 15 years more, and even then it’s at least a million dollars? Why aren’t more people questioning this? Why are these supporters in the minority while the people against it are in the majority? (Big business..politicians…government..)

10. There is such a problem with morals and gifts in the government and businesses. Why not create positions where there is an accountability force? Take those gifts and such, fine them, and take both monies and put it into some program that needs the money… don’t let them get away with the greed and sin aspect-force them to be held accountable.

Anyone who wants to answer or give their take feel free….it’s so frustrating to witness this and feel amazed at how politics is really running everything….including us…5 years ago


wraiths82This question suddenly seized me as I was watching Jon Stewart's The Daily Show.

Why can’t politicians just answer the question(s) and not bs or avoid answering?

It struck me as I watched the whole Dick Cheney and this twit Alberto Gonzalez. It just amazes me that we pay these people so much money but when seriously asking things, they get to avoid answering.

Anyone else have thoughts or answers on this? 5 years ago


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