I don’t know why but I changed my mind and now don’t think that always telling the thruth is the best way of being. Some people are crazy and insisting. You tell them the truth like things you believe in, how you want your life to be etc and they get mad and say I can’t do how I want but should do how they tell :S or how they think it’s right. In this situations I think it’s better just to lie even if it’s so sad and if I’ve spent so much time trying not to lie and tell only the truth. And actually already started telling only the truth but then I came to live in Rome and here everything is different. Sometimes when I tell the truth I’m punished even without a fault.. only because they think my lifestile is fault. And so one day I realised I have no other way than lieing and telling things the way they want. Otherwise I would have just remained without a job and a place to live. Honestly I hate telling lies and I hate when somebody ties you and tells to do how they want…
The only place where I want to continue telling the truth and even more telling everything everything how it is my relationship. Here happily I can be myself. I would also like to always tell the truth to my mom and those my friends who care of me more.
The only thing that stopes people from telling the truth is the fear of punishment. We are afraid being punished or condemned and so we lie. Then we get used to lieing as we master this our ability better involving our imagination (like this happens in my case) and then we lie even when the fear of being condemned in not that hard and the situation is not that tuff. This is the lazy “just want to lie” lieing. I hope to avoid at least this one :)! Maybe one day I will be able even to tell freely everything I want and don’t want without the need to lie. This is my dream!
Dec 04, 2008, 03:58AM PST | 2 cheers | 0 comments
I know one important thing! For not to tell all things while quarelling it’s better to tell everything, all the fears and doubts while peace! To be completely sincere.
Jun 21, 2008, 03:25PM PDT | 2 cheers | 0 comments
I lied again yesterday :(. I was asked what music I was listenning and I’ve replied a totaly different thing. The question is WHY? No reason really. :/ This spontaneous lieing has to be changed! :)
Jun 14, 2008, 11:48AM PDT | 0 comments
I’m working on it. It’s already better! As I become honest to myself, more self-confident and brave I have more courage to tell the truth! I’m very glad of that! :)
Jun 08, 2008, 12:34AM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments
Another try!
17 months ago
I lied again yesterday.. I have to have more courage to tell the truth and be how I am! :)
I will try again today! To be honest in feelings and on words. To be honest with myself and with others :)!
Jun 05, 2008, 11:57PM PDT | 0 comments
I have lied today :(! What’s worse is that I had no reason for such lie! :/.. Why have I done that?! :(
Jun 04, 2008, 08:57AM PDT | 0 comments
I need to ddo this all around I am good at telling the truth.. so i want to continue
Jul 12, 2006, 11:30AM PDT | 0 comments
This is a pretty reasonable goal, and maybe one of the most important ones. But I probably can’t start doing it until I am a better overall person, HONESTLY.
Jul 10, 2006, 09:47PM PDT | 3 cheers | 1 comment
Its one thing to always tell the truth, its another to do it in a kind loving way. Remember your truth isnt always someone elses. Be kind.
Jun 16, 2006, 10:08PM PDT | 0 comments
I’ve been doing this for about a year, and it gets mega-easy after a while. Now when I hear people lie or hear someone suggest lying, I am shocked and amazed that people still don’t tell the truth. I think it’s the only way to go and it is EASIER THAN YOU THINK. I used to be a habitual liar. Trust me. If I can do this, so can you.
Apr 04, 2006, 08:19AM PDT | 2 cheers | 1 comment