I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and lately the passion has cooled off… I’m not ready to give up just yet though.
How to make my boyfriend happy
How I did it: I did this by signing in and writing about me and asking others too give me hints on how too do this!! So please every one out there help me and just give me some opinions on how I can make mine a my wonderfull baby's relationship better so please LOVE ME!!
Lessons & tips: nothing really except follow your heart!!
Resources: friends!
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myself n my boy fnd were frnds from since 10yrs…he started loving me unknowingly frm our 6th standard.1st i showed my interest just to know his feelings.but at that i dont have any feelings.i came to know this in our 8th..for the 1st 8 to 12 months i had the doubt abt myself if it is love or attraction..but once when i said no(unwillingly) he said thats ok..but he still continued to love me..in the yr 2007 dec i have attended a camp at delhi n by this i got to realise how much do i miss him n love him..then i’ve conformed..but i didnt tell him..in yr 2008 till the completion of my 8th class we use have many disturbances in our class..so once i told him that i love him..ok.we continued.but after exams we got 2 months holidays.then i told this to my closest bro(not my own but known)he said this is all not gud.time waste n to concentrate on studies.i’ve thought of it n tried to 4get abt him.after coming to school i just avoided him.he felt very bad n used get tears…...after sumdays,i couldnt still persist to avoid him n control myself.so we again started our journey.now…...we will talk abt our future,our aims n what not everythng..but due sum prbs in school(bcz of teachers…....n sum classmates) n now the situation in school is very very terrible that we couldnt even talk to each other…before he couldnt live without me but now his love made me mad…......now i couldnt live without him…n my breathe is also bcming dficult….........he loves me a lot….i too love him….sum of our frnds also like our pair..we look like made for each other.he is a gud guy…...i cant miss him in my life…now we r 10th standard…......if any gay sees him i feel very…irritated…if he talks to any girl or boy i feel very terrible n cry sumtimes bcz of our situation…i frequently ask him why do u talk to every one n avoid me…..i know his prbs…but i coulnt live without him…why is this insecurity feeling for me…i couldnt understand….we get compromised in every disputes n conflicts…n again bcomes normal n happy with each other…we listen to each other’s words…....... stilllllllllllllllll a long story ...................................................................................text missing.......................................
actul my bf is typically gemini…. wht ever i do he’s nt satisfied i can make out….he do love me a lot bt im unable to express my feeling wit him..:(
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, and have been living together for 5. He talks about the future, you know kids and all, but he never shows any interest in me. I just want a little recognition seeing I am the only income and I do most of the housework. I wish he would be a little romantic with me. It’s embarrassing to say but, besides a peck on the cheek and a hug (which I usually initiate) we’ve had no intimacy in almost a year.
I just want to make sure he’s happy and I’m not sure how I can do that…. Any suggestions?
This guy is amazing, we met three years ago and life experiences made us drift for a few years then somehow we began talking again. it began with phone calls and we just clicked and picked up as if no time had gone by. Then I had to move away for college and he wasnt the kind of guy that would let that stop him, it was me on the other hand who wanted to break up because i wanted to experience college without ties to anyone. Well it took but a week to realize what i had lost and that i was crazy about him and that i missed him, and there he was waiting for me, and so yes we do have a longish distance relationship in which we text all through the day and talk on the phone every night, we never run out of things to tell each other and distance doesnt matter because im head over heels for him and he makes me feel like the only girl that would ever matter to him in the world and thats what counts right? and i want to make him just as happy as he makes me i want to give him the world. i am in love with this boy
ive hurt my boyfriend without even realizing it, until it was a bit too late. but last night we decided to start over, and im so happy. hes lovely, even if he does get it wrong sometimes i know hes trying for me. i just need to always remember that. i think he deserves so much better, but if its me then i want to give him my best. i thought i was before, but i see that i was thinking about me after a while. and sometimes, like now, hes absolutely beautiful
I definetly would give anything to be in the position I was when I first started writing on this…now he wants to see other people and I basically forced him to give me another chance and now i’m just petrified of getting over how much he crushed me today and opening up again in fear that he’s just going to crush me again in a few weeks. I hate the fact that you can’t see into the future and I won’t see anything comoing like I didn’t see it coming today either….I mean does anyone have any advice for me to not fall apart in the end??? I want so much for everything to just go back to being like it was before but he’s never gonna love me if i keep messing up especially now that he wants to see other people and i’m never gonna let him love me if i shy away now that I was crushed in an awful way once….what do I do?
So I’m totally working wicked hard on it but it actually slowly looks as though I’m doing much better and I’m actually much happier knowing that I can at least make him happier with me then he seemed to be sometimes..It’s a great feeling.
It’s such a weird title but I mean I just go for the whole not screwing up all the time sort of thing, I have a really bad habit of not thinking before I speak and it totally ends up getting me into a lot a lot of trouble…so I just want to stop doing that. Therefore, it’s like I stop doing that than he can be all happy.



