There is no way around this, you have to get some books and also now we have great tutorials on youtube. Here is the road map I think you should take. html/css, javascript, jquery, php , OOP php, php framework, security, SEO, Internet Marketing and a cms like wordpress. There are many tools for all these. html there is haml and zend coding, for css we have compass framework, php just get a good text editor apatana studio 3 is great and free. Security just watch some videos and tutorials. Internet marketing learn keyword research and Social media. I should take about 1 year to feel comfortable. 18 months ago