date a nice guy.

i’m probably the luckiest girl in the world right now… i’ve finally found someone who’s prove to me that all guys aren’t the same! he’s amazing. i’m blessed! and i can’t believe my coworker didn’t introduce me to his best friend sooner hehe :D funny how fate works sometimes.

I’ve dated (and still am dating) the most amazing, kind, wonderful guy.

I swear he’s been sent from heaven.

So, I’ve been rethinking this. Why would I want a guy? The truth is my life is not in a place to allow for one. I am frightfully busy reorganizing life at work…I want girlfriends more than a date, and that takes time when you are a single mother….I’m just now figuring out some of the things that make me happy.

I need to make me happy LONG before I meet a guy. I’m ditching this goal. The time will come for this, but it’s not now.

So I met this guy online, who goes to my church. He seemed nice enough, and I gave him my phone #. He called me 4 times in 2 days.

Now I’m a single mom, and I don’t have a lot of time to sit and chat. He called while I was running to teach, and while I was putting kids to bed. When I did talk to him, he was eating, smacking loudly in my ear.

Then the hurricane happened. I had told him I would call him back that day, but I couldn’t—I was looking for my family, because I’ve got loved ones there. It was a nightmare—no word for a week.

With my energy devoted to that, it was about a week before I called him back. He was livid, convinced that I had seen him at church and decided he didn’t measure up. Interestingly, he did see me at church, although I didn’t see him. He concluded that he is too emotionally fragile for a relationship now. I would certainly agree, but he really was saying to himself I was rude.

Shish.

I think I’d rather stay home with my cats! No more guys!