1—Last night, my fiance was outside talking to a man that is renting the house next door. I think my fiance was trying to seal a good rent deal so that we could move in there, since we currently have the landlord from hell. Since he was outside I lied down on the couch and watched TV, he came in at around 9:20 pm. he was mad that I was falling asleep instead of waiting for him. Is that selfish?

2—My fiance recently got me two really cute outfits, because he wanted to see me in them. He asked me to not wear them to work until I wore them while going out with him on a date. One of them is definitely work appropriate and I wanted to wear it and thought it was rediculous that me wearing it would make him mad. He said I was selfish to want to wear the outfit he got me to work, where he wouldn’t be able to see it. Was that selfish?

It’s time I thought of my family more and friends and people that are hurting out there and just need a hug, you know?

why am i so selfish? I dont really understand why i dont feel any emotion and its effecting everything around me, my relationship, me being a parent.I sometimes feel like i want to be all by myself and i push everyone away even tho thats not what i really want. But if i keep going the way i am and be selfish my life with slip though my fingers.I am going to change my ways, because life is way to short to be acting like a child . I think its time to grow up now.

I’ve read some of your listings on here and I hope you are all getting on ok with your resolutions.
I feel, unofrtunately, that i am a naturally selfish person and i don;t want to be. Me and my girlfriend, who i love so very much, are having problems at the moment and it’s because of my selfishness.
Do any of you who wish to rectify this kind of problem feel like it’s them that is being selfish, and not you?
I hope so because i’ve just sat and made a list of the things i do that piss her off, and then why i think i do them and the more i think about it the more i realise that it’s because i either want attention, affection or to be made to feel like i’m all that matters. I hope i can get better, i don’t want to lose her

I just realized today 4-19-06 that I am selfish. I sabotage me whole life when things don’t go my way. I break down. I push my boyfriend away and try to kick him out when he says something, or does something that I don’t like. I realize my problem, I just dont know how to change it. I’m going to be starting counseling and seeking professional help, so I am hoping with the help of this website and the counseling, I can change.

i think i’ve done this to the best of my ability.