never cheat

This is so terrible and I never want to do this again..however I am scared that the only way for me to stop is for me to stop dating altogether..

Relationships can be painful and hard to get out of, this then results in cheating which then causes more pain and lowers ones moral standards…

I am scared for the future..if i am like this then i will never be able to get married and preserve it ..even though marriage seems beautiful, relationships are never perfect and alot of pain is associated with them. Sometimes we have to be so careful with chosing who we want to spend our time with, and even if we think we made a good choice..things can change and the situation can become horrible.

I guess we should never be afraid to admit the truth in these circumstances….even though the truth hurts and people sometimes prefer you to tell them a lie..

The problem is that it is hard to hurt someone who has a heart of gold and is hurtng you unintenionally…Its hard to tell them that you cant take it any more while you still care for them

Two quotes come to my mind ..

‘be the change, you want to see in the world’
and ‘forgive them father for they know not what they do’

If I want people to be truthful with me, I must be truthful with them. I must forget the pain of past relationships. I must be strong enough to leave a relationship even if the person is hurting me unintentionally.

The question is should people wait till the right moment to deliver the painful truth or is sooner better than later? I guess there is the right moment and place to deliver news however it can never ease all the pain.

I want true love one day..like what I see between my godmother and godfather..although it is hard for me to believe in..

cheat and it will be cheatten on you, well i heard that and i think its true

oops

might not be the best way to approach this goal. Instead I’m going to focus on being honest and open (which may include telling someone something that will hurt them). That way I’ll be less likely to cheat down the line…

That’s all I can say about that at the moment.

I guess admitting it is the first step to ensuring that it doesn’t happen again…

I sometimes think my kind of people are getting fewer and fewer on this earth. Maybe there are more than I realize. I guess I also add ‘lying’ to this, as well, because to me, lying is the same as cheating. Most people, even people I know, will lie and not think much about it, or make excuses.

To keep from cheating or lying, it helps bring up a persons self-esteem and self-worth. Also they gain more credibility in other people’s eyes, something that they may not even realize, unless it is brought up to them.