stop being self-concious

Some days I look in the mirror and see someone pretty.
But other days, it hurts to look in the mirror because I see this thing who nobody wants…
When boys look at me is it because they just want to have sex…
or is it for my personality…
plenty of ppl tell me i’m pretty….
but i want to feel it for myself…

Yeah, so i know that everyone thinks they’re fat -
but id rather be fat .
people think im WAYY to skinny and
think im anoerexic and without even
asking me they just go off ’ oh yeah shes anorexic eww’
and im not , im the complete opposite &! just
cant gain a lot of weight .
i hate it –
i hate the names – A LOT –
i just dont know what to do…

I used to be teased alot when i was in middle school. I was alot taller than anyone else so my pants were always too short and especially my shorts were too short. People used to call me gay and try to fight me. I have never felt gay, but im always scared that people will think i am and not be nice to me. All i want right now is a girlfriend and i dont have the nerve to talk to anyone, especially girls. I know im a nice funny guy, but i dont know how to show other people. Ive never bee3n able to hold onto friends for very long, and i just now realized why, i assume they dont like me so i quit trying. what can i do?

i am so self concious of myself its not even funny…i dont like going to school anymore because i think that eveyone will judge me in what i do, wear, talk, anything. i dont know how to get rid of that feeling. i am seriously tired of my life..i dont want to be like this anymore. i dread going out places because i feel like i will be made fun of. i am a quiet person and that justs makes it even worse..i really dont know what to do anymore. i think about this everyday..like how my friends arent the same around me anymore..and im saying to myself “is it because i ugly, or not good enough for them.” it kills me to think of things like this but i just cant get over the fact of how i feel so self concious. i look at my sister and she has the nicest body ever..i wish i was able to work out everyday like she can. she has like no body fat on her body. its all mucsle. i just cant take anything anymore. i dont know what to do..i know i said it like ten times but i reallu dont know what to do…i need some help..so if u have any advice for me please let me know..ok?..thanks

so I joined a hardcore competitive drumline. I found my niche. I’m a girl in a sport that hasn’t seen a lot of girls. It really increased how I felt about myself. I also felt comfortable in my own skin, because the guys had deep respect for me because of my talents, not how little clothing I wore.

Good luck with whoever wants to do this. More power to you. It’s definately worth it.

I hate them. Unless your a model or extreamly lucky in your genes for your matabolism you look awkward in them, BUT i think that if you get it out of your mind that your awkward and truely believe that you are one of those few people, you’ll truely be comfortable in what your wearing at the pool or beach and possibly anything you wear. Mind over matter….screw what other people think about the way you look….it’s only someone who is most likely way the hell less confident about themselves and then they are really the one with the problem. I wanna get over my self conciousness because it’s the buddhist way but mostly because it’s going to be good for me. It’s just one less thing that can get me down.