understand men

seriously! I don’t get them.. they are not simple..far from it!

Why is it that men will tell you “I’ll e-mail you ASAP” and four hours later you still haven’t gotten one? Sigh I will never understand.

One of my best friend’s first grader little sister was in the room when we were talking about guys one day and when I told her she should not date until she was much much older she chimed in with “About that… I had a boyfriend who was a second grader but I dumped him for my new boyfriend” to which my friend asks “Did he say he was our boyfriend or do you just like him?” We then have to explain to this seven year old that just liking someone does not make them your boyfriend…

Moral of the story: Even from a young age the opposite sex has us confused.

Last night reminded me how much guys really do confuse me. My best friend tells me he has feelings for me, and I see the last guy that really hurt me and he tells me he is sorry and hopes we can start talking again.

I totally do not understand men.

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three months. We were great friends for ages and we still are now but we just went out and it was great. He had fancied me for ages and we were great together unitl the last week off our relationship he started to drift away from me…and then broke up with me. People just think he has problems and was afraid of how much he felt for me. I JUST DONT GET LADS AT ALL!!!

If men arent the most confusing creature on earth!!!! Do they really even understand themselvs??? One miute they want someone just like thier mother then the next minute they want you to act like a (bad girl) in bed? I dont think they know what they want except food and video games!!

not sure yet. I want to understand the manipulating kind, the stuborn kind, the kind that like women too much, or not at all, the kind that is only into sports, the kind that expects all kinds of male behaviors from other males and if they don’t get this they’ll be “disappointed”.

not sure yet. I want to understand the manipulating kind, the stuborn kind, the kind that like women too much, or not at all, the kind that is only into sports, the kind that expects all kinds of male behaviors from other males and if they don’t get this they’ll be “disappointed”.

I don’t get it. A guy I met by fluke a few months ago called me every other day for almost a month and a half. When he finally got up the courage to ask me out, he asked if he might have a chance. I told him i’d think about it, not wanting to seem too eager. We tried to make plans a few times, and he couldn’t show due to problems with scheduling. When we finally did meet up, we went out and kissed and that’s all. He said he really wanted to see me the next day. We couldn’t meet up due to his family visiting. The next day, he told me to drop by his work. I did, and he said he couldn’t wait to see me later that night. Nothing….hadn’t heard from him in over a week, then he texts me saying that he is only looking for ‘fun’. What the &*% is that about? He is begging for me to give him a chance, I do, then he pulls this? What the heck could he be thinking? I kind of like him. Should I give it a chance? ARGH!!!!

So gimme your insight.. Can someone really be in love with two people at once. I recently at back in contact with my first love (did not work out he moved away) we were kids ya know. I am in a relationship that is holding on by a thread to say the least and I want to get into something with old ex. Not sure what yet. He claims the same type of interest but is always claiming to be too “moody” or “in a mood” and can not talk. I feel like this is him saying he is not interested. Please comment if you will.