Have date nights with my husband/wife/spouse

In my daydreams of my great marriage, this would be a goal on my list. We would both have interests outside of our relationship, so we would schedule time to spend together. I’m an extreme introvert, so spending lots of time together would wear me out. I’ve been in relationships where the guy wanted to spend all of his free time with me. We’d end up in that loop: “What do you want to do now?” “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” “I don’t know.” Kill me now!!

So in my daydreams, I imagine he’s out in the garage working on some project or off playing golf. I’m sitting at the computer writing about my goals or converting my albums to MP3 or whatever it is that I want to do that day.

Maybe this makes me selfish or weird. I’m not even wanting to have relationships anymore, but every time I see this goal, it stirs something in me.

What’s your favorite goal that’s not yours? 5 years ago