see the thing that is genuinely beautiful about every person

i think this is probably one of the hardest ones on my list.
sometimes, i just think negative thoughts about people. It’s been especially the case since i’ve broken away from my comfort zone of home & am now living away at college. These vicious thoughts just come wafting into my head. I want to be able to look at a person & not just look at them & judge. I want to see past everything & see their beauty!

i really want to do this.
Because I’m in highschool, peer pressure is a big thing (maybe it’s still a big thing in adulthood)and everyone’s bitching about this girl in our year that doesn’t wear a bra. Or about that other girl who doesn’t talk to anyone. usually we go along the flow.
I’m really proud of myself that I’ve never been one of these people. I mean, how cares that someone doesn’t wear a bra, i mean, it doesn’t mean they’re a freak, hell how in the world did they find out anyway?!
I can’t imagine being a person teased on by everyone else, for something so private. Everyone’s going through the awkward stages of adolescence. Everyone deserves their privacy, right?
The only thing stopping me is my outgoingness. Like i mentioned above, peer pressure is gonna be a wall between me. Or maybe not if i have the confidence to ignore other people’s ignorance.

I hope i’ll be able to achieve by the time i graduate. =]

Honestly, this is something that everyone needs to learn.

This has been an awesome goal. Take a second when you are with someone and find something about that person that makes them special. It’ll make you feel good.

I’m going to take the time out, it only takes a minute or two, and find something in everyone I meet thats beautiful.

I can find at least one thing truely amazing about each person, it’s just that with some people, a select few that I really try to not associate with (because of what I call “Brandon syndrome”), it is really hard to see these things when they are constantly bothering the living hell out of me. I just want to try to get past all of the crud that they do or say and see their beautiful characteristics more often.

Some days this is hard to do! Luckily the beautiful people far outweigh the ugly!

The thing about this is really that you have to be humble. To look at others and see their beauty, you can’t have the mentality that you’re better off than them for the good. To put others first is one big but important step in improving a selfish lifestyle. And another thing- this is never physical beauty. So many people run around blindly looking for a good friend in the wrong places, especially with physical attractiveness. Don’t fall into the same pitholes at others :D It takes time to see it in people, but concentrating less on other’s weaknesses will start you on the right foot!

it’s a good idea.

such a worthy thing to do i wish i could i know people who do and let me tell you there soooo lucky!!