find out if he loves me or not

We had a relationship for three years, we were engage and I thought that he was the love of my life, things were not perfect but I accepted our differences and was happy to be with him. However, more times that I can remember he look at profiles online and sent his phone number to other people.

Then, when I brake up with him he try to explain himself and say that he loves me and that he never had cheated on me.

I gave him so many chances, because I love him, but he did it over and over again, I gues he will never change, at the end he said he had some problems and that he couldn’t share with me now he asking me for time and wants to be friends, he said he needs to put his life together, I saw him recently because my kids love him and were missing him but its very hard for me to be around him and not feel love for him and at the same time feel all the pain that he has caused me and the anger, and the confusion.

I do not know what to do, I don’t know if I can be with him and I don’t know if I can be without him.

i mean i loveeee a boy and hes in year9 and im in year7 he allways talks about me to his friends in nice ways he is moving in a few days and i dont no what to do and he noes i like him and when my friends tell him he smiles and goes red and idont no if he likes me ???? help plzzz xxxxxxxxxx

he’s my best fren..i fell in love with him..spoke my feelings to him yrs back and always got one reply!! “NO” yet something in me kept telling me he did but was confused and held his feelings within himself as it wasn’t possible as the future seemed dark for we belonging to two different communities and also cos he wanted to marry someone who belonged to his community!!but i always felt he loved me and has the same feelings as i do, and tat with time things will change and he will accept it.. suddenly one fine day he gets committed.. his parents chose a gal and he was okay with it, left me destructed. dint know where to go, what to do?!everyone told me he loved me but he.. he got engaged to her but still expects me to be his best friend? is that possible?? definitely not. yet he cries to me if i stop talking to him..he does good stuff to his fiancee like say I LOVE YOU and send her romantic e-card or send chocolates and flowers.. but comes to me and tells me he’s just doing it for the heck of it cos he’s getting married to her and is suppose to make her feel good!! and also tat he hasn’t yet started loving her not cos he loves me but only cos he thinks his best fren “tats me” is not happy..goes around telling the whole world tat he’s so happy and all in tat romantic world!!my frens do feel the same that he likes me a lot but guess now that he’s engaged has no choice?!!but he always said tat i was just a fren to him..tats it!! i stop talking to him and he forces me to talk to him..i cant see him with her is something i made very clear to him..i feel insecure and jealous..he knows it so well but still he comes and tells me everything he talks or they do..feel like kicking her out of his life..i cant stop loving him..?!?but now thr’s nothing to it..he’s getting married in a few months.. did he cheat on me?? why does he want both of us?!? i don see him affected in a true sense if m not talking to him cos its just his words..his actions says something so different.. he would always speak to his fiancee some N-no of times a day!! still claims that he aint happy?!? pls help me get out of this shit..its troubling me and with time getting more complicated!!

I an really stresed about this. I’ve asked him twice but his answer is always no. I however, dont believe this. i catch him looking at me multiple times a day, and he smiles when i get mad or angry. He knows that i love him, but it dosent seem to affect him. One night, i was up untill 12 o’colck thinking about him, i am desperate. i pray everynight that he will love me, and i’ve tried multiple “wish come true” things.

And i have this ex of mine.. Who i fell inlove with but he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend who he is now back together with! I thought he was the one for me , when i found out he cheated on me yeah i admit i tried killing myself! And a week later i went back out with him then i broke it off cause he was having sexual intercourse with my older sister :( like who does that right ? But it seems like whatever i do or whoever i go out with i just cant get over him for some reason! AAAND i get so jealous of him and his girlfriend. I know it sounds dumb but fcuk i just cant let him go :( everything seems to remind me of him

Im so confused and lost. Sometimes it feels like he dosent want to be with me and when he does i forget about everything and just fall inlove with him over & over again. He talks about his ex sometimes whos my friend , it gets annoying but i try to ignore it! He hardly txts me and bounces my kawls :( at times he leaves me thinkng ‘does he really love me?’ but i love him so much like onestly! he tells me everyday he loves me but i dont know if he means it.. Help please! :(

I falling in love to my pal…. how can I… tell my feeling? he such a good guy. ‘loveable’ one. he treat me very well… sometimes i feel that he have the same feeling with me… but sometimes not. Damn! I love him so much, and I don’t know is he love me or not.

He still kind of flirts with me. But he has a girlfriend. they are happy together it looks like SOMETIMES. they haven’t been dating tht long tho. we had it going really good but then he just broke up with me without telling me a reason. i am only in my teens but i think i am in love with him. please someone help me or tell me where to find help.

I have been living with the same man for the past six years. I still cant be sure he loves me. He tells me he does but I just dont kbnow what should I do

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