Good that I’m working for a software company… 4 weeks ago
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...i jus’t don’t need to find them anymore, or even know if they exist.
I accept myself as i am, and i learn to accept everyone else as well.
:) 4 months ago
How I did it: I was surprised because I did not really consciously strategize on accomplishing this. I first got to know myself and took risks. I participated in activities that I genuinely liked and I found the people there eventually. In fact, even here in 43things I found so many people with similar goals. It's quite hard to miss them when you keep your eyes open. Read how I did it… 4 months ago
One day I woke up and realized that no matter where you go, everyone is going to be different. You just have to open your eyes and realize that people like us are hidden everywhere.
I’m more of the quiet type, and by studying people and their reactions to things I decided who to spark a conversation, and later a friendship with.
The only road block is your mind, you have to realize you pick your friends. Literally. Who you decide to talk to is entirely up to you, and eventually (over time) those conversations will lead to friendships that can withstand anything you hurl at it. Just don’t try to force a friendship. Start of talking every now and then, and eventually it will lead to longer conversations.
AND DON’T BE CREEPY ABOUT IT.
Trust me, everything will work out and fall into place. 9 months ago