This is a thing I’ve been wondering lately and writing about in my blog (Spinster Chronicles) in the context of relationships. How do you be mature, but not loose that something … How not get serious in the wrong way and in the wrong level? I think that in romantic relationships this is a key thing – but it is important also otherwise.
I think it also about being scared. Somehow the fear is something everything in my life seems to be spiralling around. Somebody recommended action against it – but in action one needs to take small steps – as otherwise it may overwhelm and freeze self. It is small steps – little by little as the title of the blog says.

