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How to make more male friends
How I did it: As much as I am not a fan of social networking sites, I was re-connecting with a bunch of people through facebook recently and realised that many of them were male friends. I realised that I had never really initiated any ongoing contact with them, which is probably why I felt their absence more than female friendship.
Lessons & tips: After making an inventory of male friends, make the effort to reconnect, even if it is just digital contact
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GataOxum Working on my writting project.
Reason number one for me is that, most guys are often horrible communicaters, in this sense i wish i was a lesbian.
Sedondly, most guys can only be friends with women if they are gay. Why is that?
Heterosexual males mostly wants sex from me, not my friendship.
I dont allways
find guys attractive enough to be my boyfriend, but friendship
is necessary and nurturing no?
For whatever reason, I’ve always made more friends that are girls. The guy friends that I have are my really close friends, but in general, I would love to make more male friends to go shoot hoops with and so on.
i only have girlfriends!...and i really want some guy friends…=[..i have like..guy ACQUAINTANCES rather. but..i really wanna hang out with guy and be best friends with one!..and i dont even have that many girl friends..i just dont understand
buddies. Almost all my friends are male. I am more comfortable around them cos they are less judgmental. And if I have a zit on my face they won’t freak out. Oh and if I gain a couple pounds they won’t ask if I am preggers!!!!!!! Yeah, sometimes women are mean to each other. I don’t get it. We should be more supportive! Maybe I just know the wrong kind of women!
Darkened_Destiny is young, wild and free.
Guys rock. I like hanging out with them more then girls.. theres none of that gossip and beauty crap. Unless they are arrogant or something.. that’s annoying. Ok edit : I love handing out with NICE guys :)
On Saturday night I went to the pub with a group of people, some of which I knew quite well, others of which I didn’t really know. Most of the people in the group I ended up sitting with were male. We just chatted for a while. It was a good night.
I want to do this, because most of my friends are female and it feels a bit… unbalenced. It’ll be tricky though. Female dominated course, female dominated christian union… still, I will try.
I have an opendiary and wrote an entry about finding it difficult to meet men in Sydney that weren’t married or partnered or gay, that were decent, intelligent and funny. One of my readers in the states, wrote me a note, saying her best mail friend lived in Sydney (turns out we live only about 30 mins away from one another)and his brother lives in the same suburb as me. We have chatted a bit through IM and we are going to meet (just as friends) in late February! Goodie for me. I am proud of myself…







