Bblouder Just B
Hmmmm
1 week ago
When will I be fine with how my past is/was? Will I ever get over the hurt and pain of it all?
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How to let go of the past
It made me
me again
 "holding on to the past nearly caused me to lose my future."
How I did it: I had a really rough time whilst at school, i had grief from other students and the teachers, not because i was a trouble maker... because i was an easy target. Lessons & tips: If something from the past is affecting you now, think about it, challenge it and move on, don't dwell on the bad stuff, it'll only stop the good stuff.
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It made me
How I did it: Well after my last failed relationship, I took some time off for myself. I had been married for 15 years and went right into another relationship. I didn't know who I was without someone, basically. SO I learned all about myself for about 10 months and then when I DID meet the man of my dreams, I was ready for him. Once I fell in love and felt what TWO way love was like, the past didn't even matter. I came to peace with everything that ha… Read how I did it…
It made me
feel free
How I did it: Letting go of the past doens't mean forgeting it; it doesn't mean that you have to think about everything that happened (good or bad) as something that never did happened in reality. It did. We just have to face it, learn something from it and let it go. I stopped living in the past and this makes me feel free. Read how I did it…
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It made me
free
How I did it: I finally realized that I had to forgive in order to free myself. Also, I had blocked a lot of my feelings about the past, to sort of survive it. To move on, you have to confront the truth of what occurred, without judging anyone, then try and look at all perspectives (this way you can have compassion for those who may have abused you), sometimes there are no reasons for something happening. So just let go and forgive. Anger may feel bett… Read how I did it…
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It made me
free
How I did it: To do this i had to begin by recognising that I wanted to do it in the first place. When I realised how much of my present and future was being created by my 'memory' of the past, I wanted to have more control... But it took me ages, it's hard to just wake up and decide 'i want to let go of the past' and then it happens... I think you need to understand it, learn your lessons, pay your respects, and once you're at peace with you… Read how I did it…
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He was there and my heart fell… but I think seeing him will help me let go. Time to move on
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Happy Hour
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Going to happy hour with friends and old co-workers, he might be there. I want him to be, yet at the same time I hope he’s not.
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Right now
3 weeks ago
What you need to know about the past is that no matter what has happened, it has all worked together to bring you to this very moment. And this is the moment you can choose to make everything new. Right now.
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Untitled
4 weeks ago
I have had one particularly bad relationship which I am finding it extremely difficult to completely let go of. No matter how this guy talks to me I seem to always go back to him and want ‘to be friends’, of course always hoping for more. He says he wants my frienship but then gives me monosyllabic responses to questions and never asks me about my life, what im thinking or how i feel about anything. I think its a joke. I have to move on from him but letting go for some bizarre reason is proving harder than I anticipated. I have that little devil on my shoulder whispering to me ‘what if’. I do not want anymore what ifs. I know he does not have feelings for me, and in reality I do not like him. I keep blaming myself for pushing him away when in reality he never cared much in the first place. I need to stop blaming myself, stop dwelling on the what ifs and start focusing on the positive things in my life.
Bblouder Just B
how you feel
4 weeks ago
“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.”
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it hurts
4 weeks ago
the past was once a fond memory and it also hurts more painfully than being stabbed. i want to let go and move on to new adventures and make a new me and share my experiences with new people.
Bblouder Just B
Pain
4 weeks ago
I have let go of the past for the most part. But I can’t seem to get over all of it and those parts cause the most pain.
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