It is with a heavy heart that I am going to be deleting my content in the coming days and moving on over to Popclogs. I don’t like the thought of my entries just lingering in cyberspace indefinitely. I am incredibly sad that this site is ending but I am looking forward to a fresh start on PopClogs. I hope you will all join me and we can reconnect on there and build something amazing.
As far as this goal goes, this was my most-cheered goal on this website. I added this goal a few years into my 20s, and I really just jumped in with both feet. All of my 75 (I can’t believe it) followers know what I have done, and although I am only 26, I feel this goal is truly complete. There are still many things I want to do in the next 4 years with my career and traveling, but I am highly fulfilled if this is as far as I ever got. I never thought I would do and see half the things I did my entire life, let alone at this age. I might bring it back in the future if I find myself not taking opportunities and risks.
I wish I could find a better way to express what this site and everyone has meant to me over the last two accounts and 7 years. I don’t know a single person on this site in my every day life, but I find myself thinking of you all often. If we never cross paths again, I hope that you all have a wonderful, happy, and enriching life. I hope that all of your dreams, wishes, and goals come true. I couldn’t have made it this far without each and every one of you.
With abundant never ending love,
Heather 1 day ago
It took me a few days to write about my trip because it was so incredible that I had to get my thoughts together. I can honestly say that I found my inner peace and have never been so happy in another place. I wanted to leave everything behind and live in Kruger Park. I loved being around all the animals and away from technology. I loved waking up and knowing that every morning I would see an animal outside my hut (warthogs the first day, monkeys the second, a wildebeest the third). When I look at every single picture I am just radiating happiness. Africa really got into my blood, heart, mind, and soul. I want to return to practice social work at some point in my career. 1 week ago
one of the goals for my 20s is to be friendlier, approachable, and make friends which means stepping out of my comfort zone and pushing myself to socialize. relationships/friendships are immensely rewarding when they’re of value. in the long run, they outweigh the self accomplishments in work and education…. that is why i want to take more time to cultivate long lasting and meaningful relationships with others. 1 month ago
As of today I am 22 years old( I will turn 23 in September!), with the addition of this goal I have been thinking, am I really making the most out of it? Well…not quite. I got my cosmetology license when I was 19 almost 20, worked in a salon for a year then went back to school, I have met a lot of interesting people and some wild nights after 21 but still I want to do a lot more before 30. I want to continue with school ( still not quite sure what I want to commit to), travel (out of state and internationally), be in excellent physical condition( lose a little bit of weight and be in better shape), and just have more fun and take advantage of every opportunity that comes my way! :)) 1 month ago
The aim is to work towards the following before 2015-
-Sit some of my CIMA exams
-Get some sort of work experience be it paid or voluntary in accounts
-Save up a deposit for a place and continue doing so
-Travel some more
-Become a qualified make up artist on the side
-Continue enjoying my new life in London
-Do more socially
-Make more wonderful friends
-Stay happy 3 months ago
I’m 30 now and well I’m still running out of time 3 months ago
Somewhere to document what I get up to whilst I’m 26…
- Explored new places – Guildford, Kingston and Windsor
- Am kicking social anxiety’s ass!
- Brighton Tattoo Convention
- Tried pole dancing!
- Won Best Visual Team in the region!!
- Started face painting
- Setting up my business
- Epic nights out 5 months ago
I’ve had so many jobs since turning 20. I’ve taught art and design, worked with young people, been an artist, photocopied, photographed, worked events, worked in retail. I even had what would be seen as a ‘good job’ working in a photography studio for a fashion label. But I’ve given them all up. I’ve always gotten bored, frustrated or just simply couldn’t handle it. I’ve wanted to run away from all of them. Working in an office environment pretty much destroyed me and in an attempt to get out, I applied for postgraduate study. I got a place and I was out of there.
I’ve never really known what I was doing, I’ve floundered between being ‘selfish’ and wanting to do something deemed worthwhile, like teaching. I’ve wanted to be everything from an artist to a baker. I had to keep starting again and try so many things to get here but I’m now on the right track.
I’ve let go of my debilitating need to ‘do good’ and have given in to what I’m actually good at. I’ve become a visual merchandiser. I absolutely adore it and I don’t want to do anything else. I get paid rubbish but I don’t care. I love styling mannequins and putting in new window displays. I love being busy, up and down ladders, painting and fixing things. I love not working in an office and I enjoy being around people all day.
The point is – I’m finally happy. It’s taken five years of experimenting but I’m at a place where I’m settled and thriving. I’m also now in a job that supports my other interests (like makeup, hair and styling) and actually compliments them. To anyone who is struggling with their career or purpose – stop. There are no mistakes, only ways to navigate to where you should be. Probably one of the best things to happen to me during this decade is finding my passion and something I feel I’m really good at. 6 months ago
25 was one hell of a year, I pushed myself to the limit. I studied hard, graduated and got a job. I managed to do some things on my list like Summer Solstice at Stonehenge, cocktails, makeup training, seeing an opera, the list goes on… I may not have done everything but I think in terms of achievement, the year was a success. I won’t be pushing myself like that again though as I’ve lost some of my sanity along the way.
I’m now at a bit of a crossroads in life, not really 100% sure what I’m doing or where I’m going but I’m just rolling with it. The long term relationship with the man I thought I’d be with forever is now over. From here on out I’ll be focusing on just me, the things I want, supporting myself and bettering myself. I’ve made a list of things I want to achieve whilst 26, here’s a snippet…
- BE EVEN MORE AWESOME!
- Do the Great South Run
- Get tattooed more
- Indulge in some Vivienne Westwood shoes
- Festival and gigs
- Learn to ride a motorbike
- Plan my American road trip
- Travel more in general
- Advance in my job
Lots to do! Here’s to the next year! 7 months ago
There’s not much I need to be happy, really. I’m rather laid back about most things. But some things I’d really like to hit before I’m thirty. Notice some things appearing from my other goals.
1. Visit California
2. Get 3 more tattoos
3. Have a tattoo done by Kat Von D
4. Get my belly button pierced again
5. Get 2 more ear piercings
6. Visit Ohio, Illinois, Michigan, Kentucky, and Tennessee 7 months ago
Did I make the most of my twenties? Maybe not. Maybe.
Either way, I think I did the best with who I was and what I had and I’m in my 30s now. Weird :) Time to make the most of my 30s! 8 months ago
...to be done. To make the most of my 20’s, I need to travel more, learn languages, and maybe, just maybe, move out of L.A.
I like in here, but after being here for almost a decade, I feel like it is time for me to move to a different place.
The things I posted on my first entry are still wants; now I need to get to what I need to do in order to achieve all that. 8 months ago
I have 4 more years on me until I turn 30.
Yes, this list is still standing:
1. get a tattoo
2. visit hawaii/canada
3. learn how to swim
4. get into graduate school
5. get fit/toned (run another marathon?)
6. learn to sew
7. get a passport
Number 7 is the easiest, #1 and #4 can happen within the next year, #5 requires dedication and time which is difficult for me to make time and want to make time for, same applies to #6, hopefully #2 will happen by next summer 8 months ago
I feel the need to document more for this goal. I started it mid way through my 20s so there’s alot I haven’t talked about. That’s probably for the best though as my very early 20s were, quite frankly, crap.
However, this year has kind of been a turning point in terms of attitude. As the title may suggest, there have been a huge amount of perks for me when it comes to this getting older stuff… When I say ‘getting older’ that in itself makes me feel ancient, haha but I guess I’ve just gotten a little more level-headed.
The first and most important one is – I just don’t give a damn. If you don’t like me, the way I dress, my opinion/view, etc? I really DON’T care. What’s more, I don’t care about your way of life either. And that’s a good thing. We’re all individuals just trying to get on in this crazy life. Embrace difference.
That leads me into another thing – I’m so laid back, I could be laying down. I really am not bothered about being five minutes late. You being five minutes late. Missing a train, etc. All those things that drive people wild. Guess what? They don’t really matter. Yay! No more unnecessary worrying.
And my last thing is… I am good enough. I know I’m not alone here but I used to worry alot about how I appeared to others, whether I was accepted or not, how successful I was, blah blah blah. Constant churning over and over in my mind about how I could constantly better myself. I’m not totally over it but for the most part, I am. I am damn good enough. And if you don’t like that or don’t agree? Tough and too bad.
So yeah, getting older and caring less is awesome. 9 months ago
that I wrote a couple of weeks ago makes me feel better about what I have now. This was something that I wanted, so I’m getting it, and it’s time to embrace it.
Life isn’t about “getting stuck” or being “robotic”. It’s about exploration and enjoyment. Yes, we still have to adhere to this system of working to pay off bills to keep us from living on the streets, but we have to always keep in mind that it’s more than just that. If we can find THE way to ENJOY life and work, we are successful and happy.
I can see myself 20 years from now and think back about my 20s and not regret the decisions that I have made. 9 months ago