not care what people think of me or my choices

I’m starting to realize more and more that people will judge and critize my choices no matter what. It is impossible for me to please everyone. I’m tired of my “friend’s” opinions mattering at all in my life. They really don’t truly care about me and what they say is their own worthless opinion. The only opinion I want to care about is my own and if it is right with God. He is the only one who knows what is best for me.

I’m trying to work on not letting what people say or think affect how i am. I don’t want to let it hurt me anymore.

but I do. I don’t know why. I think I’m being myself but maybe I’m not at all.

I work on this, daily.

I’ve always cared too much about what others think of me but, now I have realized they think whatever they want of me and as long as I stay real to myself they wont matter and find out how wrong they are…perhaps too late for them.

I just might pull this one off in a few months…

it annoys me that people judge me without knowing me. i hate it when other people tell me that i got to change my appeareance to something more decent. people dont like my choices because i actually do what i think is right for me and then i can’t help feeling guilty for having done it. so yeah i just want to change that.

If I follow my bliss, I wont blame others for my misfortune.I have learned this the hard way

i live in a really old fashioned country, even people of my age think im weird because i dress in full black, paint my nails in black, cut and paint my hairs all the time, have tattoos and other stuff, and i do enjoy being me regardless of what they think, i care what the people i love think aboout it, but not even for them i would change

Zen meditation and self-help books from Brian Tracy etc. go along way in the pursuit of this ‘thing’.

It’s not that I’m so unusual or my choices are exceptional, but still I spend much time thinking what others think of me, of what I said to them, and if I offended them etc. And then I feel guilty without no logical reason.