get the love of my life back

I met the love of my life 2 1/2 yrs ago. At the time though my sister was interested in him and he was interested in me. He was known to be somewhat of a man whore so i wasnt interested, but we started talking a month or so after we met. A week or so after we started talking his ex started drama so i told him we shouldnt talk or anything. He tried to see me and talk to me everyday for a month after that. When i finally came around he told me he liked me and someone else. So for the next 2 years we talked on and off because of the age difference and stupid drama people would start.

Well i guess i kind of cheated on him recently and i told him because i felt guilty and he usually tells me when something happens at a party with him. He started talking bout marriage and having kids after i confessed so i pulled back because im only 18 so im not ready for that. Well when we finally started talking again a month after that he made us “official”. But now he just wants to be friends because “hes tired of the stress and the acting weird bullshit” but yet he still says he loves me.

Weve tried being just friends before and it never works. We’re either talking and together or we have nothing to do with eachother at all because its to hard for us. And i want to be with him. Hes the only one that matters to me. So what should i do because i cant lose him…..id be devastated.?

I met the love of my life and waited three years just to be with him. When we were finally together, nothing went right. I ruined everything, because I had changed… It only lasted three MONTHS before I broke up with him. Now he’s all I want…
He says we’ll be together in the end… But he doesn’t want me back because I hurt him so badly… How can I prove to him we should be together?

I met the love of my life last year! He is so kind and generous, I love him with all my heart…I however cheated on him when we first met and told him the truth a few months down the road. We stayed together then with many trust issues though. Recently we broke up, he can’t trust me but says he loves me,I really want him back and in my life. He is my whole world and more and I would never hurt him again.

My love and I met at a fitness club and we hit it off right away. He asked me out and we started dating for about 2 months until I wanted to commit and move forward to a serious relationship and he didn’t. I told him that I couldn’t do this anymore and we became friends.
It’s been 1 1/2 now and I still want him back. I have made the effort to tell him that I still have feelings for him but he just isn’t ready for a relationship. Will I ever get him back? or have him at all? Will he ever commit?
When we are together we have this attraction that I have never felt towards anybody before.

So i met the love of my life the first day of high school. We were super good friends until our senior year when i told her i had feelings for her. She told me she didn’t share those feelings for about 3 weeks until when she told me she was just scared of a relationship. We started dating shortly afterwards and were planning on getting married.

After 10 months of dating she told me she claimed God told her we needed to take a break. I loved her so much a reluctantly said ok then two weeks later we broke up but she said she still wanted to be really good friends. And i know her friends gave her a nudge in this direction.

Its been 4 months since then and we havnt talked in person or on the phone once. Ive tried to talk to her just as friends through emails but she just dismisses me.

Even on the day we broke up she said she still loved me.

Just recently she moved away about a hour from me. I feel like shes running from me.

SHES NOT ACTING LIKE A EX WHO JUST WANTS TO BE FRINEDS.

Its hard because i dont just love her as a lover i love her as a frined to, but i dont have her either way..

Please some give me advice!!!

I am deeply and truly in love with a girl named ruchi who made my life so beautiful and amazing.
In the last 8 years that i had lived with her she has already given me so much happiness that i can not complaint.
Though we only met few times as it was a long distance relation i can convincingly tell you that i lived with her every moment.
She was in my heart, my thoughts , my breath and she still is.

Her love was so pure and generous and now i feel its not there though something in me tells me its not true.

I admit that i made a big big mistake and i could not prove my worth to her and her parents which ulitmately led my love to take a decision with a very heavy and sad heart.
I know deep within her heart she loves me even more than i love her.

I want my love back …. please please pray for me.

the love of my life and i met in 7th grade we have been off and on ever since, a year before his mission we dated very seriuosly and when he left to india for a two year missionn for our church he wrote me and broke up with me becasue it was to hard to serve 100% and be thinking about me. he comes home in one year and I want to get him back he is the only boy i have ever loved.

I met him when I was 19 years old. He was 24. The year was 1996.
Met him driving my ex’s car (he was kind enough to lend it to me. I was waiting at a red light, when a really cute guy asked me to pull over that he wanted to talk to me. I laughed at him and he stood in front of my car. I thought “he is insane” but my gf made me stop. LOOOOOOOOOONG story short, we exchanged numbers and started dating right away. The only reason we weren’t perfect for each other was that I am 5’9 and he is 5’7 (lol I know) but his confidence won me over.
We dated for 6 months and I stopped seeing him because 1) I wasn’t ready and 2) I knew he was too good to be true.
Well a year went by, I dated another dude, and ran into Eddie again on the same spot we met (it was odd because neither one of us lived around around there anymore). In 1998 we decided to go out again, and 2 weeks later I KNEW I WAS IN LOVE and I freaking spilled it when I was hanging up the phone!(I said Te Quiero which is like I love you but sweeter, well to me at least) ANYWAY…3 months later we moved in together. We lived 3 VERY happy years. But he is a VERY good looking dude and I was very insecure and I’d fight with him all the time. He got tired and we broke up. 3 months later, we got back. We lasted another 3 years. He wanted to get married but I wasn’t ready and I broke up with him. I KNOW! INSANITY! We broke up for two years. I dated and met VERY nice men, but my heart and mind was still with Eddie. About 2 weeks ago, we decided to date again and now we both want the same thing! We are planning a summer wedding. 11 years later and I get to marry the man that still gives me butterflies when I see him.
So to those that have been thru similar situations, IF YOU TRULY believe that THAT person is the ONE for you, then live your life, let them go, and if they are the ONE for you, they’ll be there when you LEAST expect it. Good luck and happy life to all.

I couldn’t really help anyone with this, but here’s my story. My boyfriend and I decided to go on a break because of long and thoroughly discussed circumstances. I didn’t want to be friends with him anymore, I didn’t want to talk to him it hurt too much! And then one day I came home and had to find out through freaking Myspace that he had a new girlfriend. I called him up crying and and told his mom to wake him up. He told me that he hadn’t done anything with her, he hadn’t even kissed her yet. He’s never given me a reason not to trust him, so he calmed me down and told me to get some sleep. He still laughs about it because they were really more like friends than anything. Then he even told me he wasn’t sure if he loved me… I’m not easily deterred though, so I made the arguments and told him how I felt. Apparently it worked because the next day it was as if nothing happened. A couple months down the road we were talking about my trip to AZ and he pretty much said “Screw it! I want to be with you.” That’s the Cliff’s Notes version of our story. We’re together happily, he asked me to move in with him. I’m scared out of my mind to do it, but we’ll see what happens.

you’ll have the same problems you had before. don’t do it!