Be remembered as a beautiful and kind person

I am trying to be a better person, be thinking kind thoughts and saying only good things about people and not get sucked into vicious gossiping that goes on sometime at work or with friends. I don’t want to be a bitter person blaming others for my shortcomings in life and try to forgive others of their faults as well. This is new as occasionaly I do all of the above. Ok, this is not easy not to mention trying to apply this positive communication with my immediate family of a teenage daugher and 21 year old son and a 25 year marriage.
“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”
Susan